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Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes!

Since we are not in the military any longer we are not directly affected by the changes happening. We are still, however, a military family via being Blue Star parents and we still have many friends who serve. I hear the same thing from many of my friends and family members — changes are coming (and some are here). Whether it’s reintegration changes from a war zone to home or reintegration changes from military to civilian life, it seems that change is afoot. With the declaration of the end of the war in Iraq, some troops staying in Kuwait, and the announced downsizing of the military, families are facing a lot of change.

How do you cope with change? These are not minor changes, but major life changes that can cause us to feel overwhelmed. What are your strategies? Below are a few I found that resonate with me personally. We have been through a lot of transitions ourselves between military and civilian life — it happened fast and insanely for us, but below are some of the attitudes we had that helped us through. Continue reading

Photo of the Day – They Can’t Keep Us Down

A couple of months ago, the Kandahar Bazaar School was burned down by indirect fire launched by insurgents. I remember this day and how tragic it was that a school suffered an attack by its own countrymen. Thankfully, the attack happened in the evening when no one was inside so no one was injured in that attack. But, in the grand tradition of our great military, we rebuilt and showed the Taliban we won’t be hindered.


Netherlands Col. Kees Marselis, Kandahar Airfield chief of staff, applauds the bazaar school children for continuing their education and wishes them a prosperous future during the bazaar school ribbon-cutting ceremony at Kandahar Airfield, Afghanistan Jan. 21, 2012. More than 50 children attend the bazaar school every Saturday to learn about all school subjects.

This post is my personal opinion and not representative of the Army, the Department of Defense, The United States Government, the 82nd Airborne Division, the 3rd Infantry Division, III Corps, the 101st Airborne Division, the 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, the 511th MI Company, the School of the Americas, ISAF, RC(S), RC(E), RC(N), RC(W), CENTCOM, TRADOC, FORSCOM, Recruiting Command, The United States Marine Corps, the United States Air Force, the United States Navy, The United States Coast Guard, The Boy Scouts of America, the Department of Education, or any other unit, department, office, Section, squad, platoon, company battalion, brigade, division, Corps, any branch of service, rank, MOS, or any other segment of official military or government, real or imagined.

Photo of the Day – Bridging the Gap

In all honesty, most of Afghanistan is NOT against us. We’ve done a LOT of great stuff here and the people recognize us by our actions. Even when stupid videos are released of Marines pissing on corpses, most Afghans recognize that this is not indicative of American troops. What most Afghans know of us is the school supplies we give, the animal vaccines, and building bridges that link villages for the first time.


The Musa Qal’eh low water crossing built by Naval Mobile Construction Battalion (NMCB) FOUR Seabees prior to the opening ceremonies. NMCB FOUR is a component of the Navy Expeditionary Combat Command that provides contingency engineering and construction across Afghanistan in support of the overall mission of International Security Assistance Forces and regional commander requirements.
(U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 1st Class Russell Stewart/RELEASED)

This post is my personal opinion and not representative of the Army, the Department of Defense, The United States Government, the 82nd Airborne Division, the 3rd Infantry Division, III Corps, the 101st Airborne Division, the 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, the 511th MI Company, the School of the Americas, ISAF, RC(S), RC(E), RC(N), RC(W), CENTCOM, TRADOC, FORSCOM, Recruiting Command, The United States Marine Corps, the United States Air Force, the United States Navy, The United States Coast Guard, The Boy Scouts of America, the Department of Education, or any other unit, department, office, Section, squad, platoon, company battalion, brigade, division, Corps, any branch of service, rank, MOS, or any other segment of official military or government, real or imagined.

Photo of the Day – War with a view


Soldiers with 2nd Battalion, 8th Infantry Regiment, 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 4th Infantry Division, who live on Village Stability Platform Chenar, have an unforgettable view. Portable toilets may not be all that classy but they are a necessity and with a view like this they can’t be that bad.

This post is my personal opinion and not representative of the Army, the Department of Defense, The United States Government, the 82nd Airborne Division, the 3rd Infantry Division, III Corps, the 101st Airborne Division, the 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, the 511th MI Company, the School of the Americas, ISAF, RC(S), RC(E), RC(N), RC(W), CENTCOM, TRADOC, FORSCOM, Recruiting Command, The United States Marine Corps, the United States Air Force, the United States Navy, The United States Coast Guard, The Boy Scouts of America, the Department of Education, or any other unit, department, office, Section, squad, platoon, company battalion, brigade, division, Corps, any branch of service, rank, MOS, or any other segment of official military or government, real or imagined.

Banana Republic Stores honoring our military, but HURRY!

This was originally posted on bouhammer.com but in order to get the word out I am posting it here too.

SPREAD THE WORD!!

Banana Republic stores are doing a little something to honor our military and give them a break on clothes. If you are a military member, retired, veteran, or a military family member they are giving you 50% off of up to three full-price items through Sunday, January 22nd. Sorry for the late notice but tomorrow is the last day.

After that they are giving the same folks 15% off all items from January 23-31.

Please check out http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/info.do?cid=76923&mlink=5001,4470740,21&clink=4470740 to learn more.

Spread the word, tell your friends, family, family readiness groups and units about this awesome deal

Free Call Day for Troops in Iraq, Afghanistan, and Kuwait

The VFW is sponsoring free calls for troops overseas back home. Details were posted as a Facebook event.

VFW salutes the Armed Forces with an Operation Uplink Free Call Day! Troops and hospitalized veterans in Iraq, Afghanistan and Kuwait can call the U.S. for free for a full 24 hours on Sunday January 22, 2012.

The Free Call Day will begin at 12:01AM on January 22, and end at 11:59PM January 22 (EST).

Free Call Days are offered at more than 800 MWR internet cafes using SPAWAR located at various military installations in Iraq, Afghanistan and Kuwait.

To place a call:
Use regular dialing procedures using your SPAWAR prepaid PIN number. If you do not have a PIN, you can obtain one from the café manager. Upon dialing, you will hear a sponsor announcement informing you that your call is free of charge.

Take advantage of this Free Call Day and call your loved ones in the Unites States!

Feedback is welcomed and encouraged!
uplink@vfw.org

Don’t worry if operational commitments would prevent your loved one from calling home tomorrow for free. The VFW and others are sponsoring additional dates, two a month in fact, for the rest of the year! Let your deployed loved one know so they can get in line early!

Photo of the Day – Hunter Gatherer

The Kiowa Indians are indigenous to the Texas panhandle and surrounding areas. They were nomadic tribes that hunted buffalos. They also gathered various plants, roots, and berries for food and medicine. For this reason, they were called hunter/gatherers.

The OH-58 Kiowa Warrior helcopter was named after this brave and serves a similar function in the military. Its primary mission is to conduct armed reconnaissance , security, target acquisition and designation, command and control, light attack and defensive air combat missions in support of combat and contingency operations. Instead of using spears, bows and arrows, the Kiowa Warrior is equipped with two universal quick-change weapons pylons that can carry two air-to-air Stingers (ATAS), a .50 caliber machine gun, HYDRA 70 (2.75 in) rockets (7-shot pod), and HELLFIRE missiles (2-round launcher). And they’re just as successful hunting Taliban and Al Qaeda as their namesake was hunting buffalo!


A U.S. Army OH-58 Kiowa, Bagram Air Field, Afghanistan, flies over Bagram mountains Jan. 16, 2012. Photo by Army Staff Sgt. Joseph Harwood.

This post is my personal opinion and not representative of the Army, the Department of Defense, The United States Government, the 82nd Airborne Division, the 3rd Infantry Division, III Corps, the 101st Airborne Division, the 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, the 511th MI Company, the School of the Americas, ISAF, RC(S), RC(E), RC(N), RC(W), CENTCOM, TRADOC, FORSCOM, Recruiting Command, The United States Marine Corps, the United States Air Force, the United States Navy, The United States Coast Guard, The Boy Scouts of America, the Department of Education, or any other unit, department, office, Section, squad, platoon, company battalion, brigade, division, Corps, any branch of service, rank, MOS, or any other segment of official military or government, real or imagined.

Commissary Surcharge Helps Improve Benefit

When military Servicemembers shop their commissary, they not only have the opportunity to save a substantial amount of money, but they also contribute to the improvement of the commissary system. For almost 60 years, Congress has required commissaries to collect a surcharge which has been set at 5 percent for more than 28 years.  This surcharge is used to build replacement stores, renovate and repair existing stores, and purchase equipment such as freezers and cash registers. These funds help maintain and modernize stores at a reduced cost to taxpayers, and by law, they cannot be used for any other purpose. For more details on this surcharge, please click: http://www.commissaries.com/press_room/press_release/2012/DeCA_01_12.cfm

Send a Valentine’s Day message to your deployed sweetheart!

I used to send the Stars and Stripes Christmas messages when my son was in Iraq. It was a fun way to send a little extra love and some recognition while he was deployed and working lots of hours. Stars and Stripes is offering a Valentine’s Day message option too! Stop by today and send a message to your special deployed military member!

We are thrilled to offer you the opportunity to send your sweetheart stationed overseas a Valentine’s Day message and have it printed in the pages of Stars and Stripes.

Your message will appear online for loved ones to enjoy all over the world, and will also be published in the European, Pacific and Mideast editions of Stars and Stripes on February 14.

Wherever your sweetheart is stationed or deployed, don’t miss the opportunity to share your love… Upload your message today!

CLICK HERE TO SEND YOUR MESSAGE

Suicide Numbers Regress for First Time Since 2007


1st Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment was split across three distinctly different areas of operation. Charlie Company was in Marjah, reinforcing Marine and Afghan forces operating in the city’s remaining troubled regions. Alpha Company was in Sangin District, where they supported the 3rd and later, 1st Reconnaissance Battalion. During Operation Eastern Storm, Headquarters, Bravo and Weapons companies secured route 611, which runs through Kajaki Sofla, an area that had long been a safe haven for insurgent sub-commanders and for arms and drug trafficking.

The Army released suicide data today for the month of December and calendar year (CY) 2011. During December, among active-duty soldiers, there were 11 potential suicides: two have been confirmed as suicide, and nine remain under investigation. For November, the Army reported seven potential suicides among active-duty soldiers. Since the release of that report, five have been confirmed as a suicide, and two remain under investigation. For CY 2011 there were 164 potential active-duty suicides of which 140 have been confirmed as suicides, and 24 remain under investigation.

During December, among reserve component soldiers who were not on active duty, there were five potential suicides (four Army National Guard and one Army Reserve): three have been confirmed as suicide and two remain under investigation. For November, among that same group, there were eight potential suicides. Since the release of that report, three cases have been added for a total of 11 cases (11 Army National Guard and no Army Reserve). Of those, nine were confirmed as suicides and two remain under investigation. For CY 2011, there were 114 potential not on active duty suicides (80 National Guard and 34 Army Reserve): 102 have been confirmed as suicide, and 12 remain under investigation.

A report released today, “Army 2020 Generating the Health and Discipline of the Force,” referred to as the “Army Gold Book,” represents the next phase in Army health and disciplinary promotion efforts. The report assesses progress made, as well as identifies and addresses remaining gaps in policy, programs and procedures relating to soldier health and discipline since the release of the “Army Red Book” in July 2010. It also underscores the importance of ongoing leader education, tireless commitment and open communication at all levels in assuring that the right choices continue to be made for our soldiers, the Army and our nation.

“As we look ahead to the strategic reset, transitioning from a predominantly wartime Army to a ready and responsive one, leaders at every level must be actively engaged. They must understand the issues addressed in this report, apply the many lessons learned and, unlike the mostly reactive efforts of the post-Vietnam Army, continue to take a proactive approach to generating health and discipline in the force.

“This report should serve as a comprehensive guide, a roadmap of sorts reflecting not only how far we have come in recent years, but more importantly, provide direction as we look ahead to the strategic reset and the many challenges we will inevitably face as we come back home,” according to the “Gold Book.”

Soldiers and families in need of crisis assistance can contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Trained consultants are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year and can be contacted by dialing 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or by visiting their website at http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org.

Army leaders can access current health promotion guidance in newly revised Army Regulation 600-63 (Health Promotion) at: http://www.army.mil/usapa/epubs/pdf/r600_63.pdf and Army Pamphlet 600-24 (Health Promotion, Risk Reduction and Suicide Prevention) at http://www.army.mil/usapa/epubs/pdf/p600_24.pdf.

The Army’s comprehensive list of Suicide Prevention Program information is located at http://www.preventsuicide.army.mil.

Suicide prevention training resources for Army families can be accessed at http://www.armyg1.army.mil/hr/suicide/training_sub.asp?sub_cat=20 (requires Army Knowledge Online access to download materials).

Information about Military OneSource is located at http://www.militaryonesource.com or by dialing the toll-free number 1-800-342-9647for those residing in the continental United States. Overseas personnel should refer to the Military OneSource website for dialing instructions for their specific location.

Information about the Army’s Comprehensive Soldier Fitness Program is located at http://www.army.mil/csf/.

The Defense Center for Excellence for Psychological Health and Traumatic Brain Injury (DCoE) Outreach Center can be contacted at 1-866-966-1020, via electronic mail at Resources@DCoEOutreach.org and at http://www.dcoe.health.mil.

The website for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention is http://www.afsp.org/, and the Suicide Prevention Resource Council site is found at http://www.sprc.org/index.asp.

While this post contains official military information, it is not meant to be representative of the Army, the Department of Defense, The United States Government, the 82nd Airborne Division, the 3rd Infantry Division, III Corps, the 101st Airborne Division, the 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, the 511th MI Company, the School of the Americas, ISAF, RC(S), RC(E), RC(N), RC(W), CENTCOM, TRADOC, FORSCOM, Recruiting Command, The United States Marine Corps, the United States Air Force, the United States Navy, The United States Coast Guard, The Boy Scouts of America, the Department of Education, or any other unit, department, office, Section, squad, platoon, company battalion, brigade, division, Corps, any branch of service, rank, MOS, or any other segment of official military or government, real or imagined.