Monthly Archives: August 2011

2-38 Cav. creates new FET, links GIRoA to Afghan women

Female engagement teams (FET) are the key to winning this war. Without our female troops, it would be near impossible to contact and engage with some of the most influential people in the Afghan home – the women. But, we’re actively engaged in ensuring that we do whatever possible to earn the trust and confidence of the Afghan populace – all of them.


Staff Sgt. Steven Stogner, tactical platoon sergeant, 2nd Squadron, 38th Cavalry Regiment, 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, explains how to inspect body armor and equipment needed for air insertion missions to Female Engagement Team soldiers from the 504th BfSB, Aug. 13, at Forward Operating Base Spin Boldak, Afghanistan. The new FET will embed with squadron operations to help connect Afghan women in the area with their government. Stogner is a Heneryetta, Okla., native deployed from Fort Hood, Texas. Photo by Senior Airman Jessica Lockoski

FORWARD OPERATING BASE SPIN BOLDAK, Afghanistan — Soldiers from the 2nd Squadron, 38th Cavalry Regiment, 504th Battlefield Surveillance Brigade, recently created the first-ever Female Engagement Team in Combined Task Force Viper’s area of operations in rural, southern Afghanistan.

“The role of our FET is to connect the government and its women together and better their treatment and opportunities, such as healthcare, education and employment,” said 1st Lt. Sarah Casper, FET team leader and information operations officer, 2-38 Cav.

FETs, comprised of military women, are aimed at assessing the needs of Afghan women. They partner with Government Islamic Republic of Afghanistan officials to improve the women’s quality of life, treatment and influence among the population.

Casper, two female Afghan interpreters and three female soldiers from the 504th BfSB are identified as FET members. They hope to increase the two-way communication in the Spin Boldak and Weesh areas so they can initially begin to facilitate basic needs.

Many women in these regions have little or no interaction with female soldiers. However, Casper, a Florence, S.C., native deployed from Fort Hood, Texas, explained by listening to them and sharing simple gestures, such as smiling and comparing roles of household responsibilities and motherhood, the engagement will go a long way in building trust and self confidence.

Viper’s FET will also play a duel part by gathering atmospheric knowledge, which can give the squadron a larger picture of situational awareness in surrounding village communities.

“We also will play a role in tactical operations,” she added. “A lot of commanders use FETs during kinetic operations where female soldiers conduct physical searches of women or gather pertinent information from them.”

For example, due to cultural sensitivities, a male soldier should not approach or speak with an Afghan woman. Any interaction with a woman may put her life in jeopardy or scrutiny from members of her village.

But Casper said a woman’s ability to necessitate communication and physical contact in a non-threatening environment may open doors to counterinsurgency goals.

“Afghan women comprise about 50 percent of the country’s population,” she added. “That’s a large portion of people who could bear great influence among society. Sometimes in Pashto culture, the elder female may have a lot influence behind closed doors in her village.”

Because the women will be an embedded asset during security operations, Casper, along with soldiers from 2-38 Cav., helped provide the FET with the tactical aspects of training. Before they are able to conduct missions, they learned search and seizure techniques, weapons familiarization and basic air-insertion training.

Casper also provided them with knowledge she received from attending the FET course taught by Regional Command-South subject-matter-experts, at Kandahar Airfield. Afghan culture, history and government were emphasized, and as well as the importance of respecting and deterring to local customs and traditions.

Spc. April Wallace, whose primary job is working as a mechanic for the 509th Forward Support Company, 504th BfSB, is one of the FET members who received training at Forward Operating Base Spin Boldak.

Although her FET mission will be an additional duty, as with all of her teammates, the Coolidge, Ariz., native said she is anxious to start.

She has been interested in the FET concept since she heard about a similar Army-led program called Cultural Support Teams before she deployed and wanted to volunteer while in Afghanistan.

“I’m excited for this experience,” said Wallace, who was selected among the best candidates for FET by her first sergeant. “The training was good, and I look forward to meeting these women and see how I can relate to them because I myself am a mother.”

Casper said she would like to see the FET make embroidery, a popular woman’s craft in the region, into a livelihood for them. The team is also working on mid-wife networking among villages and would like to provide health and hygiene classes in the future.

“I think it’s an excellent opportunity to connect to these women,” Casper said. “I hope what we do for them allows these women to be self-sustaining.”

President Obama to Award Medal of Honor to Marine


On September 15th, President Barack Obama will award Dakota Meyer, a former active duty Marine Corps Corporal, the Medal of Honor for conspicuous gallantry. He will receive the Medal of Honor for his courageous actions while serving as a member of Marine Embedded Training Team 2-8, Regional Corps Advisory Command 3-7, in Kunar Province, Afghanistan, on September 8, 2009 in support of Operation Enduring Freedom. He will be the third living recipient – and first Marine – to be awarded the Medal of Honor for actions in Iraq or Afghanistan. He and his family will join the President at the White House to commemorate his example of selfless service.

Dakota Meyer was born in Columbia, Kentucky on June 26, 1988, attended local public schools, and graduated from Green County high school. In 2006, he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps at a recruiting station in Louisville, Kentucky, and completed his basic training at Parris Island Recruit Training Depot later that year.

In 2010, he completed his active duty commitment and currently serves in the Inactive Ready Reserve of the U.S. Marine Corps Reserve as a Sergeant. He is a highly skilled Marine infantryman and Scout Sniper who is also trained as a Combat Lifesaver. At the time of his deployment to combat duty in Afghanistan he was serving as a Turret Gunner and Driver.

While on active duty, he deployed twice to the combat theater, serving in both Iraq and Afghanistan. During 2007, he deployed to Iraq for Operation Iraqi Freedom with Third Battalion, Third Marines, and during 2009-10, he deployed to Afghanistan for Operation Enduring Freedom.

His military decorations include: a Purple Heart Medal, Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal with “V” device for valor, Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal, and Good Conduct Medal. His other awards and decorations include the Combat Action Ribbon, National Defense Service Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal with one bronze campaign star, Iraq Campaign Medal with one bronze campaign star, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, Sea Service Deployment Ribbon, NATO ISAF Afghanistan Medal, and a Rifle Expert Badge (3rd Award) and Pistol Expert Badge (2nd Award).

Photo of the Day – Combat Lifesavers

Note: The connection here isn’t allowing me to upload the hi res photo. I’ll update this post when I get a chance with the appropriate photo.

For those that weren’t aware, I finally made it into Afghanistan and have begun a year in this wonderful, tropical paradise! I will be posting updates both here and at my main blog, A Soldier’s Perspective. However, don’t expect much by way of information just based on the nature of my mission.

One of the things that, looking back, becomes eminently important is the training that Soldiers receive to save the lives of their fellow troops – or even themselves. Combat lifesaving techniques cannot be stressed enough in any training plan prior to deployment. Even though the training may, at times, seem monotonous or repetitive, it should be pounded into Soldiers heads over and over again to ensure they understand the importance of knowing these lifesaving steps.

Prior to leaving Kyrgyzstan, I explained to my group of Soldiers how important this training was we were receiving there. We were being taught how to use our IFAK kits. During the training, I caught a Soldier falling asleep. Correction: the Soldier WAS asleep, not getting there. I made the immediate correction and when the instructor put us on a break I explained to every Soldier what we were getting into. The Soldier had never deployed and probably didn’t understand the severity of what was about to take place when we got on that plane.

I explained that one of these Soldiers could very well depend on him for saving his life and does he think that falling asleep during this important training will provide him with the tools to do that. I mentioned a story from my time in Iraq years ago when we were called to the scene of an assassination attempt that had just occurred a few blocks from our position. We arrived on the scene and a bloodied Iraqi man was lying in the streets with brain matter protruding from his head. Instantly, all the training we had received back at home and in Kuwait kicked in. I knew EXACTLY how to treat the head wound and other injuries. We were able to bring him “back to life” three times before he took his last breath. While there really wasn’t much we could do about a brain injury, the fact is that my team didn’t hesitate to do what we were trained to the do and the Iraqi people saw that we tried to save even a lost cause. He could be that person that the Afghan people are watching when one of their own needs immediately medical assistance and if he isn’t confident and competent in these things, we just lost value in the face of the population.

What it all boils down to is that, in the end, we are all potential combat lifesavers!

Sisterhood of SEAL Wives Rally Around Widows

I am not surprised. Proud, but not surprised.

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SEAL Wives Rally Around the Widows

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The wives and mothers of Navy SEAL operating base Dam Neck, an air station near Virginia Beach, began their grim vigil when news broke that the Taliban had shot down a helicopter rushing to the aid U.S. soldiers. The crash claimed the lives of 30 U.S. troops, 22 of them Navy SEALs.

“You almost turn yourself off emotionally when things like this happen,” said the wife of a SEAL who spoke to ABCNews.com on condition of anonymity to protect her husband and her family. “You just get to work. Now this has happened so you go into robot mode — who needs what and what do we need to do.”

The possibility of catastrophic news comes with the territory when women say “I do” and marry a SEAL. They cope with that as best they can.

The wife who spoke to ABCNews.com said she doesn’t ask her husband a lot of questions because “It’s not fun to be told I can’t hear something.” Instead, she said, she does “a lot of talking to my mom.”

While the SEALs have not been officially identified, some of their names have made public by their families. A sampling of this handful shows what sorrow there is for their families.

Kevin Houston, 36, of Chesapeake, Va., was married and had three children.

Fellow SEAL Matt Mason was married, had two children and his wife is pregnant with their third child.

SEAL Michael Strange of Mayfair, Pa., was only 25, but was engaged to be married.

Others, like Jon Tumilson, of Rockford, Iowa, were single, but the distress was no less for their mothers.

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Fatal Attraction – food for thought on infidelity

Food for thought on infidelity:
I was reading this morning in the Fayetteville Observer about former Command Sgt. Maj. Mario Vigil and the sordid details of the love affair that cost him his position. I am not going to fan the flames on someone who is already being roasted at the stake, but the fallout is something that needs to be considered.

Those who seek extramarital affairs will often say they did it for the ‘thrill’ of seeking sex from someone other than their spouse and the thrill of hiding it and getting away with it. In reality though, no one ever ‘gets away’ with it. There are alway consequences. You don’t need to be caught with your pants down to dampen your own conscience and open a potential Pandora’s Box for your family… children included. Infidelity is not a victimless past time.

In the case of Vigil he has lost his career. If that’s not bad enough the nightmare continues as his former pregnant mistress is stalking him and his family, which is no help as he works to fix his damaged marriage. No person goes into an affair thinking this will ever happen to them, but anyone who plays with fire will eventually get burned in one way or another.

This morning I read, at Army Times, of another case of fatal attraction involving an innocent soldier and his “psycho” therapist. In this case the therapist stalked her client who was seeing her for help with his PTSD. He did nothing more than show up for visits, and when she made advances toward him he rejected her. Her career is now in jeopardy (and rightfully so). He has a leg to stand on because there was no sexually immoral issues between the two of them. He is protected by the vows he not only too, but upheld. She, on the other hand, is condemned by the ethics she subscribed to and then violated. We condemn ourselves when we speak vows we do not keep. Our own promises can condemn us. Vows can protect you, but only inasmuch as you protect them first.

Sexual infidelity is not known only to the military. It is more widely accepted in our culture in general, and we are weaker for it. People take solemn vows (including the therapist who would have ascribed to a certain work ethic with clients) and then we toss them aside on a whim. In the end it causes a huge moral deficit that our children do inherit – they are watching and learning.

Love languages and the military marriage

We spent all of last week at White Sulphur Springs at the foot of the Alleghenies in Pennsylvania. The presenters for the week long marriage conference were Jim (Lt. Col, RET) and Bea Fishback. The Mr. and I had so much fun! It was a lot of good basic information that, although we know, we sometimes forget in the hurry and scurry of life. One little tid-bit of new and fun information was the concept of love languages. This helps Bryan and I look at how we ‘feel’ loved and the way we show our love to one another. Sometimes there is a huge disconnect, and understanding your spouse and how he/she feels loved helps to bridge that disconnect.

They built some of what we did on Dr. Gary Chapman’s “The 5 Love Languages.” The 5 love languages are: words of affirmation, quality time, touch (non-sexual), acts of service, and small gifts. The basic tenets of this approach to understanding each other is 1. I have a love language of my own. 2. My spouse has his own love language too. 3. If we understand one another’s love language we build one another up. 4. If we neglect the other’s need we cause distance and stress in our marriage.

When Bryan and I took the test we found out that we do, actually, have different love languages. It helped us both to see and understand why sometimes we can work overtime to say “I love you” in a certain way, but the other is not responding.

My top 3 love languages are: touch, words of affirmation and gifts. Bryan’s are: touch, acts of service, and quality time. So I may shower my husband with words of affirmation because that’s my own way of feeling loved, when in reality he would be more blessed if I helped him with a chore around the house he is feeling behind on, or if I schedule a fun family activity that gives us quality time. He, on the other hand, may do a chore for me (and I am grateful when he does… don’t get me wrong!) but he may forget to speak words of affirmation to me because those words aren’t as important to him.

We found and took an online assessment. It was really no huge surprise to us, but it did help me understand better what was important to my husband and how I can more effectively build him up, show him how much I love him and keep the distance between us minimal.

In the sessions during the conference we talked also about how helpful it is to know this information when a spouse is deploying or deployed. How can we use the information on his/her love language to communicate our love over the distance? If I know my spouse needs words of affirmation then I will spend more time on phone calls speaking those words or writing him notes of appreciation. It gives you an insiders edge!

Here’s a link to the assessment we used. I will write some more over the next couple of weeks about the sessions and what we walked away with. In the meantime if you are in Grafenwoehr Germany, the Fishbacks will be there in the Fall. You can find out more specific information through your Chaplain in a couple of months. I highly recommend their workshops on strengthening military marriages!

American Bar Association (ABA) launches website to help military families

I love good resources! This website has some great resources including a military pro bono center. Here’s more:

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The American Bar Association recently launched a new website for military service members and their families that aims to provide information about a variety of legal issues.

ABA Home Front features an information center, a directory of programs and a military pro bono center.

Henry M. Dewoskin, a Clayton, Mo., lawyer who chairs the military committee of the Family Law Section, says that he and other volunteers worked with ABA staff to ensure information on the site was written clearly and could be easily understood by people who are not lawyers.

“I hope it can be used as a resource for the public, and I also hope it’s one of the first pages that they go to,” said Dewoskin, a judge advocate general officer who currently serves as a major in the U.S. Army Reserve.

The portal also includes information about the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act, which provides legal protections for active-duty military and their families.

“Being in the military is a 24/7 commitment that takes its members and their families across the country, and around the world,” ABA President Stephen N. Zack said in a news release. “That’s where the online legal center comes in. At any time, someone can access basic information on the legal issue they’re dealing with—whether it’s a family law matter, tax question or problem with a creditor.”

According to Jack Rives, executive director of the ABA, the organization has received great feedback about the website so far.

“The American Bar Association profoundly appreciates the service and sacrifices of our armed forces,” he says. “Our ABA Home Front program represents a significant step forward to ensure the kind of high-quality legal support our nation’s warriors and their families need—and deserve.”

LINK TO ABA Homefront

New Office Aims to Strengthen Families Financially

A government office dedicated to protecting Servicemembers and their families from financial predators and pitfalls officially opened for business this week.  As the military arm of the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, the Office of Servicemember Affairs is intended to strengthen military families financially and to serve as an advocate on their behalf.  Since there are 50 states, each with different laws, military families may be unaware of the protections in the state where they live.  The office will work to ensure Servicemembers and their families receive the financial protection and education they deserve by insuring that military personnel are provided a quality financial education.  Additionally, the office will monitor consumer complaints and the responses to those complaints, and work with other federal and state agencies to help resolve issues.  To report a financial issue or complaint, Servicemembers and their families can visit the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau website at http://www.consumerfinance.gov.

 

Tomorrow night, we are going to have an amazing show.

In the first hour, we will have the Warrior Spirit Band join us and they will tell us about their mission. They were recently highlighted on CNN and if you look at that picture, you will see that they want you to know they are wounded vets who have a story to tell.

Delacerda got the idea in 2009 to form a band of wounded warriors who would play for audiences of wounded warriors. By early 2010 the band Warrior Spirit was up and jamming at Veterans Affairs hospitals, rehab facilities and Warrior Transition Units.

“We can talk to these wounded soldiers and talk to them about what they’re going through,” Delacerda said. “We can say, ‘Hey man, I’ve been there.’ …

We will talk about their music, their mission, and what their plans are to get out there and share their message!

In the second hour, we will hear the tragic story of Jake Andrews. Jake’s mother, Lauri Turner will be on to tell us what happened when her son spiraled out of control with what was unrecognized PTSD and when he got his life back on track and he was starting to move forward, he took his own life.

We here at Youserved and especially on the podcast are very concerned with PTSD and suicide prevention, so this will be a show you won’t want to miss.

Please join us at the Youserved podcast from 8-10pm EST.

Photo of the Day – The Task At Hand

With Congress fighting each other tooth and nail to fix a problem years in the making that can’t be fixed in days, the troops stand to be the big losers. Of the reported $900 billion in “savings” over the next ten years, over $336 billion is coming from the Pentagon! The government agency that will be making the largest sacrifice and bearing the brunt of political theater is doing this:

Soldiers assigned to Battery C, 3rd Battalion, 321st Field Artillery Regiment, 18th Fires Brigade, attached to 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 25th Infantry Division, Task Force Bronco, return fire from their M777A2 howitzer named “Capital Punishment” at Combat Outpost Honaker-Miracle in eastern Afghanistan’s Kunar province, July 30. With the budget deadline approaching in Congress, these soldiers said they’re more worried about doing their job and staying alive in one of the most dangerous areas of Afghanistan. Photo by SFC Mark Burrell.