Monthly Archives: July 2010

TAPS APPLAUDS GREEN BEANS COFFEE FOR HELPING FAMILIES OF OUR FALLEN MILITARY

YouServed Note- We had some members of TAPS on You Served Radio back on Jan 21st, 2010 show. You can listen to an awesome and moving show at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/youserved/2010/01/22/episode-72–taps.

A cup of coffee can do so much more than just energize the weary. It can also help the families of our fallen military heroes through TAPS, the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors, thanks to the Green Beans Coffee Company.

Since 2007, a portion of gross sales generated at all Green Beans Coffee Company locations supports TAPS programs to offer comfort and care to all who are grieving the death of a loved one who served in the Armed Forces.

Virtually all of Green Beans Coffee’s 70+ cafes are located on American military bases, including locations in the United States and 6 other countries. More than half of the company’s cafes are located in Iraq and Afghanistan. Many are situated on forward operating bases, which are often in places of extreme danger and where there are few amenities for the troops.

“We are deeply grateful for the heartfelt support of Green Beans Coffee Company and its co-founders Jason and Jon Araghi,” said Bonnie Carroll, founder and chairman of TAPS. “Their long-term and ongoing support for the families of our fallen heroes has made a huge difference to our programs for families and children.”

Created in 2008, the TAPS Organic Special Blend is a premium coffee that is available for purchase for $8.95 online at www.greenbeanscoffee.com . The coffee blend is available in whole bean, espresso, press pot, and drip grinds. The company donates a portion of every purchase of this specialty coffee blend to help TAPS in its mission to care for the loved ones of our brave military men and women who have given the ultimate sacrifice in service to our country.

“Many people would not think that buying a few bags of coffee could do something like fund grief support services for a parent, or a crisis line that operates 24 hours a day to assist families who are in trauma, or a book to help a family that’s lost a soldier to suicide, or materials for a child attending TAPS Good Grief Camp,” said Carroll. “But all of these TAPS programs receive a portion of their support from donations through Green Beans Coffee Company. Just buying a cup or a pound of coffee – does make a difference in the lives of the surviving families of our fallen heroes, because it provides us with donations that fund our work at TAPS.”

Green Beans Coffee Company is well known for its support of our military. As of July 2010, Green Beans Coffee Company has delivered more than 190,000 cups of fresh-brewed coffee to armed services personnel deployed in Iraq and Afghanistan thanks to the generosity of thousands of Americans who have participated in the company’s CUP OF JOE FOR A JOE program, launched early last year.

About TAPS

The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) is the national organization providing compassionate care for the families of America’s fallen military heroes and has offered support to more than 30,000 surviving family members of our fallen military since 1994. TAPS provides peer-based emotional support, grief and trauma resources, seminars, case work assistance, and 24/7 crisis intervention care for all who have been affected by a death in the Armed Forces. Services are provided free of charge. For more information go to www.taps.org or call the toll-free crisis line at 800.959.TAPS

About Green Beans Coffee Company

Founded in 1996, Green Beans Coffee Company is committed to bringing great coffee service to military personnel stationed around the globe and creating a warm environment where soldiers can relax and feel at home. The company operates 70+ cafes in the US and at military bases in six countries throughout Southwest Asia, the Middle East and East Africa. In response to customer demand, Green Beans Coffee is currently expanding its footprint in the U.S. market and around the world by offering its super premium coffee products, fresh baked goods, and healthy meal options in airports, metropolitan cities, and suburban communities. More information about Green Beans Coffee can be found on the company’s website at www.greenbeanscoffee.com


Matt Goss in Vegas

Back in October while attending the 2009 Blog World Expo for this blog, I had the opportunity to see a great show by Matt Goss. Matt is an awesome performer who puts on a true “old school” Vegas style show. I attended this show with my wife and several fellow milbloggers. After the show I had the chance to hang out with Matt, his Producer (Pussycat Dolls founder) Robin Antin, and surprisingly actor Anthony Edwards.

I have been in contact with Matt since that show and then back in April we had Matt on You Served Radio during our special 2010 Milblog Conference broadcast. You can listen to that interview at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/youserved/2010/04/08/episode-83.

Matt is a British citizen but has more American Patriotism than many Americans I have met. He cares about this country and about our military which you can here first hand at the podcast link above.

So last weekend I was back in Vegas again for a little R&R time and again was his guest at the show. I brought several old and new friends with me along with my oldest son. Matt had another guest there too, Ms. Kelly Osbourne, the daughter of famed awesome master of Rock, Ozzy Osbourne. I found out later that Kelly was in Vegas to unwind and get her mind off of her breakup from her 2 year fiance.

If you ever get out to Vegas you should definitely go see Matt. He encompasses all that used to be Vegas in the 50s-60s. I have even seen some critics refer to him as the leader of the new Rat Pack. There are a few videos up on You Tube from Matt’s show last Saturday night. One is from someone that was there and two are from me. I have embedded them below so you can see what kind of show this Patriot puts on.


To thine own self be true

A military wife mentioned to me “I feel like I am acting crazy since my husband deployed. I cry more and being out in public makes me mad! Why am I acting like this?”

We as humans are created to be adaptive. In order to survive, function and conquer life’s challenges we must adapt, and when we don’t, we do not function (or become dysfunctional) or we become conquered and fall into despair. Adaptation is not the same as deception, and we can still be true to ourselves and those around us even when we have had to change for a season of time to adapt to a stressful event like deployment.

I have noticed for myself that various aspects of my personality become more pronounced during a time of crisis, and then less pronounced during a time of calm. Sometimes I even shock myself when I am able to take command of a situation in a moment of intense need, and then later I look back and think “how in the world did I do that!?”

Many spouses and family members morph a little when deployment occurs. We know our loved ones have already started to transition to the battlefield before they even leave. This adaptation to the demands of a war zone are vital for their well being and survival — so why do we think we won’t have the same type of transition on the home front? Truth is, we do!

The most important thing I think you can do is to honor that adaptation. If you feel the need to be more involved in the community than you normally are, do it. If you feel the need to build stronger boundaries, do it. The biggest mistake you can make is to put up a front and act like you are not trying to adapt to the loss of having your husband nearby and not in danger. What we don’t acknowledge in our conscious mind will be worked out one way or the other. It’s the way we maintain sanity (or at least a good attempt at it!)

So, to thine own self be true! Take time to figure out your needs and find healthy ways to adapt. It is possible to “carpe diem” during deployment. It’s not easy, but the truer you are to yourself the better chance you will have at adapting to his deployment and adapting to his homecoming! Adaptation happens at both the leaving and coming back! The better you adapt the better it will be for you, your children and your spouse. If you are struggling with depression or other issues that keep you seriously bogged down, please seek help! You can find a qualified counselor through Military One Source or Give an Hour. Seeking help does not mean you are maladaptive, but rather it is a sign of a person who is working hard to figure it all out, and there is never any shame in that.

Fisher Houses Ease Financial Burden

We have had Ken Fisher form the Fisher House on You Served radio before and of course our ebay auction store supported the Fisher House for about the first six months we had the store up. The bottom line is we support and encourage others to support Fisher House.

In March, Fisher House opened a new facility in Illinois, the most recently opened of 45 houses across the country that offer free lodging to veterans who have to travel more than 50 miles to get treatment at government-run Veterans Affairs (VA) hospitals, said Cindy Campbell, community liaison with the national Fisher House Foundation. Their families can stay for free, too. The current Fisher Houses are located on 18 military installations and near 15 VA medical centers. Zachary Fisher founded the charity two decades ago and built its first 22 houses with his own money. The organization has saved patients and their families nearly $150 million in lodging fees and transportation costs since its beginning. To learn more, go to:http://www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2010-07-06-fisher-house_N.htm


Standing For the Fallen

A Marine stands at the position of attention. An American flag and the Marine Corps colors are displayed behind him. There is a small box near him with the simple words “Marine Vet seeking donations for wounded warriors”. The day is warm, yet the Marine continues to stand. You Served Radio asked the former Marine Sergeant Mark Dolfini to join us to learn more about Standing for the Fallen.

Mark told us how the name came to be (audio link) saying, ‘I was speaking to a member of the media and they were saying, “What are you standing for?” And I was like, “Oh, I’m standing for the fallen.” And that kinda stuck and became the name.’

On 4 July, Mark set out to stand for 24 hours. He set up his flags, box, and sign as he had previous weeks and snapped to the position of attention taking a stand for those who can not (audio link). He explained he would take his post and stand at the position of attention or parade rest. He said, “I would stand there until someone would come up with a donation and at that point I would break attention and thank them for coming.”

Many of those coming to donate had a story to tell. Mark listened to them all before thanking them again, giving a salute, and returning to his post. He tells the story of one older gentleman who gave a donation without speaking much (audio link). Mark followed the gentleman to his car and rendered a salute. The gentleman didn’t realize Mark had been standing there. When he noticed, tears came to the man’s eyes. He attempted to return the salute, and drove away wiping his face. Mark then saw a veteran’s license plate on the car.

Standing for the Fallen touched many lives on a warm Fourth of July. Many cars honked as they drove by, and Mark was joined by other service members, both past and present. Veterans donated to the next generation of warriors. The beautiful thing about Standing for the Fallen is that you can take a stand as well by donating throughout the year to Soldiers’ Angles Germany with monetary support or in need items.

Listen to the full interview, it was amazing.

Additional coverage:
Hooah Wife
Mudville Gazette
Soldiers’ Angels
WLFI

Stolen Valor and Free Speech

I’ve been super busy since returning from leave and decided to get back into the swing of things with a bit of controversy that i’m sure most of my readers will disagree with. So, i’m giving you bottom line up front and then ask that you continue reading. As currently written, I believe that the Stolen Valor Act is unconstitutional! BOOM BABY!! ;)

With that said, the intention behind it is honorable and I find the people guilty of “violating” the Act dispicable, vile, and some of the lowest forms of life in the country – just under politicians. Now, let me explain. I’ll start with the Constitution itself:

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances

The word “abridge” in the Constitution is the legal synonym meaning “deprive of, dispossess of, disseise, divest of, expropriate, limit, restrict, seize, strip, take away, usurp, wrest from”, etc. Therefore, Congress can make “no law” that will restrict “the freedom of speech.” Now, let’s take a look at the actual wording of the Stolen Valor Act.

“Whoever falsely represents himself or herself, verbally or in writing, to have been awarded any decoration or medal authorized by Congress for the Armed Forces of the United States, any of the service medals or badges awarded to the members of such forces, the ribbon, button, or rosette of any such badge, decoration, or medal, or any colorable imitation of such item shall be fined under this title, imprisoned not more than six months, or both.’’

The emphasis being mine, this is the part that concerns me as a libertarian and constitutionalist. We have that document for a reason. It is the basis of our legal system and MUST be adhered to – or amended through a constitutional convention. As worded the mere utterance, whether in braggadocio or in fun, that one was awarded a military decoration is punishable. That, by definition, violates the abridgement clause of the 1st Amendment.

I was awarded the Silver Star medal. See that? I just violated the SVA. Even though you and I both know it’s not true, according to the law, I just commited a crime and am subject to prison time and fines as written.

We all know that we can’t have people running around in military and police uniforms. Where I think the SVA needs to be fixed is when citizens use their free speech bragging rights to commit fraud. When someone claims to be the recipient of a military decoration they never received in order to obtain a benefit or material gain is where the law should kick in. But then, the crime falls under fraud charges. Yes, the government will have a more difficult time proving fraud.

As I said before, I’m utterly and profainly disgusted with fake Soldiers (ie: IVAW). They are the scum suckers of the earth and can potentially give troops a bad name. However, I contend that only troops themselves can give troops a bad name. No one marching around in a fake uniform and surplus store medals is degraded what I know I earned. Only I can degrade or defame my accomplishments. I am opposed to this law not out of emotion, but out of legal standing.

I love the intent of the SVA, but I don’t want laws passed on what people think is or is not a good idea. I want laws passed that are for the good of the people AND comply with the Constitution of the United States – the document I’m sworn to uphold.

This all comes from a recent decision by US District Court Judge Robert Blackburn that dismissed a case against veteran imposter Rick Strandlof, also known as Rick Duncan. While Duncan/Strandlof is a putrid loser, I can’t help but agree with Blackburn.

“I acknowledge that there is much irony, to put it gently, in concluding that the core values of our system of governance, which our military men and women serve to defend with their very lives, are here invoked to protect false claims,” Blackburn wrote in his decision. “I have profound faith – a faith that appears to be questioned by the government here – that the reputation, honor, and dignity military decorations embody are not so tenuous or ephemeral as to be erased by the mere utterance of a false claim of entitlement.”

Unfortunately, I disagree with completely dismissing this particular case. Strandlof actually collected money based on his lies – fraud. While he shouldn’t be prosecuted for lying about being a Soldier or recipient of medals, he SHOULD be charged with fraud for misrepresenting himself to basically scam money from people. That is where the law should be focused.

One may argue that we can’t just let these idiots get away with lying about medals and service. I agree! That is why have groups like VAWatchdog.org, This Ain’t Hell, and other milblogs. Public humiliation is usually far worse than any jail time could ever be. Once one of these dirtbags is outed, his future career prospects will be put in jeopardy and his standing in the community will be shot.

This isn’t just an anti-war, moron issue. Just this week, an Army Command Sergeant Major was relieved for similar stolen valor issues. While details haven’t been released as to exactly what he was wearing that he wasn’t entitled to, the fact that he was relieved of his command position speaks volumes. Normally, these issues are small – someone wearing a unit award from a previous assignment and mistakenly thinking they are still authorized to wear it; one too many knots on the Good Conduct Medal; etc. For a CSM to be relieved, something beyond a simple Article 15 and non-judicial punishment happened.

The bottom line is that we can’t go easy on these people, but we need to create laws that are consistent with the supreme law of the land – the United States Constitution. Unfortunately, the Stolen Valor Act is not!

Who needs to be in combat to have PTSD

New PTSD Rules Relax Definition

Under a new process for claiming post-traumatic stress disorder, veterans will no longer have to engage in actual combat to make the case they suffered psychologically in war. Instead, the new policy recognizes that living with the fear of death and injury may be enough for troops to develop mental health issues.

Let me be up front and clear at the start of this blog. This rule relaxation is complete crap. The VA already throws way too much money at Veteran’s who don’t deserve it. I know of veteran’s who choose not to tap into these benefits because being diagnosed with PTSD could hurt their career, even though they have a level of PTSD and I know of veterans who threw out such a sob story that they near or at 100% VA disability, and almost all of it for PTSD, and these guys have no reason to claim it.

Of course under this new rule they do.

“With this new PTSD regulation we are acknowledging the inherently stressful nature of the places and circumstances military services, in which the reality and fear of hostile or terrorist activities is always present,”…

Groups like the Warrior Legacy Foundation and others are already working very hard to try to get rid of the “Your a soldier so you must be a victim” mentality. The MSM, Hollywood and many on the both sides of the political aisle continue to try and push this mindset along with what they can do to help the poor “victims”.

Now every person who ever served can run to the VA and claim PTSD because “they knew someone that died” or “because their EIB, EFMB, or Spur Ride was so damn stressful”.

Walcoff said many more veterans will now be able to file claims for PTSD, including troops who did not have direct contact with the enemy.

The amount of money this will cost will have to come from somewhere else and it would not surprise me to see other very helpful veteran’s programs to be negatively impacted in order to fund the flood of new claims that will come through.

While there has been some concern that the new rules might create fraud — primarily vets claiming PTSD for incidents that did not occur — Walcott said the VA’s overriding concern is getting care to those who do need and deserve it.

Well at least they admit and recognize that there will be fraud.

Read the whole story here, http://www.military.com/news/article/new-ptsd-rules-relax-definition.html


DOD to Resume Restructured Military Spouse Career Program

I found the followsing at MyCaa Homepage on Military One Source.

A Message from DoD:

DoD will resume the MyCAA program. The Department Of Defense has completed the program review and will be making the necessary adjustments to resume the MyCAA program beginning in October 2010.

Starting 8 a.m. (EDT) Monday October 25, 2010, Military OneSource career and education counselors will have a much more active role in supporting military spouses. In addition to understanding resources available via DoD’s financial aid support, they will provide support and assistance to identify and gain access to other federal, state and local programs. All military spouses of active duty service members will be eligible for career counseling and support.

New financial assistance guidelines. With a focus on the original intent of the program, the Defense Department’s financial assistance program will:

  • Be available to spouses of active duty service members in pay grades E1-E5, W1-W2, and O1-O2
  • Offer a maximum financial benefit of $4,000 with a fiscal year cap of $2,000. Waivers will be available for spouses pursuing licensure or certification up to the total maximum assistance of $4,000
  • Require military spouses to finish their program of study within three years from the start date of the first course
  • Be limited to associate degrees, certification and licensures

These new guidelines reflect a return to the original purpose of the program – to assist spouses of service members achieve portable careers. These changes also align the program with responsible fiscal planning by the Defense Department to help sustain the program. Additional program details will be posted on this Web site when they become available. We encourage you to check the site often.

Spouses who currently have an active account will be allowed to request financial assistance until Thursday, October 21, 2010. And beginning September 1, 2010, spouses may request financial assistance for classes that have a start date up to January 15, 2011. To ensure adequate time to plan for courses, no career plans will be accepted after August 31, 2010. All currently approved financial assistance documents will be honored.

Additionally, the review revealed that National Guard and Reserve members must be on active duty for their spouses to receive the MyCAA benefit. Spouses may no longer use the MyCAA benefit when the service member is in an alert or demobilization period. The new eligibility rule takes effect immediately.

The program will be closed from Friday, October 22 to Monday, October 25, 2010, so that we may ensure the infrastructure is in place to implement the new program.

Military spouses are the backbone for military families, displaying strength of character to be admired by this nation. The Department of Defense remains committed to investing in military families, and appreciates the sacrifice of those who also serve.

Click here for information on financial resources that are available.

Military Benefits Targeted in Cost Cutting Talks

The $549 billion defense budget is being targeted for cost cuts, and the $197 billion of that budget that goes to personnel costs is at risk, even by the Department of Defense (DoD) itself. The list of programs under attack includes pay raises, retired pay, health care benefits, commissaries and exchanges, and even the size of the force. A task force is proposing a $1.1 trillion reduction in defense spending over 10 years, including $628.5 billion in personnel programs. The President of AUSA, General (Ret) Gordon R. Sullivan, has spoken out on this issue urging Congress to protect Soldier pay and benefits.  In his President’s Corner article of May 17, 2010 and during visits to senior leaders on the Hill in May, General Sullivan said that he was concerned that military pay and benefits as well as increases in TRICARE fees and co-pays might become the bill payers for presumed flat defense budgets in the future. General Sullivan followed up his Hill visits with a letter in June to key members of both the House and Senate including Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid; Minority Leader Mitch McConnell; Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi; Minority Leader John Boehner as well as leaders of the Armed Services Committees and Appropriations Committees.
To read the complete article, please go to: http://www.armytimes.com/news/2010/07/army_benefits_070210w/

National Museum of the Marine Corps Launches Virtual Tour

The National Museum of the Marine Corps, dedicated 12 November 2006 with the announcement of Corporal Jason Dunham’s Medal of Honor, is a place that means a lot to the Marine Corps. It tells of our history, our legacy, and the blood we’ve shed over almost 235 years. Now you can tour the museum with our changing out of your PJ’s from the comfort of your own home. The museum has launch an interactive virtual tour that allows you to experience many of the galleries up close.

The Commandant of the Marine Corps, James T. Conway, has recorded an introduction video that describes what you can explore during the virtual tour.

I’ve longed to visit the National Museum of the Marine Corps, and while this is an amazing tour, I can’t wait to see it in person some day.