Monthly Archives: December 2009

More from Gitmo with Bridge of Sighs

The other day I put up a posting with a link to the 1st video in a series of them from PJTV. Bill Whittle from PJTV went to Gitmo with the frequent You Served Radio guests, Bridge of Sighs. You can see that posting here, http://www.vamortgagecenter.com/blog/2009/11/24/you-served-represented-in-gitmo/

Below is the 2nd video in the series. It has more great footage of the band and those that came with them to Gitmo jamming out, and enjoying some free time down in the sand and the sun. Check it out at,

http://www.pjtv.com/v/2790

PTA Reaches Out to Military Families

Unfortunately, that isn’t happening here in Alabama where apparently the PTA could not care less about what a local PTA is doing to military families. Perhaps it’s silent approval that military families are being attacked and separated by a power mad and ignorant PTA is okay here since Alabama State PTA officials never bothered to respond to my concerns and the behavior of their officers at both the school and district level.

But, Alaska DOES seem to get it. In recent weeks, representatives from the National Military Family Association have had the opportunity to work with the Parent Teachers Association (PTA) at both the state and national level. In mid-October, Kathleen Moakler, Government Relations Director, traveled to Alaska to take part in a series of dialogues between military families, family program and healthcare providers, state legislators, city government leaders, non-government organizations, and Alaska State PTA volunteers. The sessions were held in Fairbanks, Anchorage, and Kodiak. Participants in each session were briefed on Service family support programs, military healthcare, veterans’ benefits, as well as new legislation affecting service members and their families.

Our Association and the Armed Services YMCA were highlighted as organizations with “best practices” and presented overviews of how our programs were impacting military families. Time was allotted at the end of each of the 6 hour sessions for a discussion of what programs were helping families and where the gaps existed. A report of these meetings will be presented to the Alaska state legislature’s Joint Armed Services Committee and to the Alaska congressional delegation. This project was funded by the Alaska state legislature through a grant to the Alaska PTA. Special thanks go to Paula Pawlowski and Chris Ward (Association representatives in Alaska) and Al Tamagni from the Alaska PTA for inviting our Association to take part in this timely series of meetings.

In addition to participating with PTA on the state level, Candace Wheeler, Government Relations Deputy Director, traveled to the National PTA Headquarters in Chicago where she represented our Association at the first meeting of the PTA Alliance to Support Military Families. The mission of the new alliance is to educate PTA families across the country and overseas on how to support military families, and to give military families the tools to become better advocates for their children. Other members of the alliance are the Military Impacted Schools Association (MISA), Military Child Education Coalition (MCEC), and the Department of Defense Education Activity (DoDEA).

Soldier Defense Fund

It has been my honor and pleasure to be a part of the VA Mortgage Center team through my involvement with the You Served blog as a writer and You Served Radio as a host.

We’ve raised thousands of dollars through the You Served eBay store and this blog for very worthy causes, including Fisher House and Soldiers Angels’ Valour-IT project. All of the proceeds go directly to a military charity.

While I have no problem asking for money to support these efforts, I’ve always been very bashful about asking for anything for myself. However, I feel like I must humble myself and ask for help on my own behalf in this instance.

In September, my kids brought home a note from their school stating that the school would transition to uniforms beginning in January — midway through the school year. Naturally, this concerned me as the cost for each kid (I have two who would be affected) would be at least $400. A note home to parents assured us that the principal would entertain concerns during the upcoming “uniform fashion show.” However, the principal ended that meeting without answering a question, even though numerous hands were up. After that meeting, I organized parents with concerns and began a letter-writing and phone-calling campaign to members of the school board and media. We succeeded in getting the uniform issue tabled until next year. But parents still weren’t given a voice about whether we even wanted uniforms.

Instead of deal with me and other parents who disagreed with her new policy, the school’s principal began contacting the Army with fictitious complaints that I had threatened her. She pointed to posts on my personal blog about her behavior at the meeting as proof. However, after being referred to military investigators, they concluded that I had never issued any threats through email, blog or otherwise. I collected letters from other parents attesting to my behavior at the meeting.

Unfortunately, the Army took what the principal was saying at face value and formally counseled me. Suddenly, I was a trouble maker after 15 years of honorable service. The Army practically forced me to shut down my blog, though the decision was mine alone and no orders were given to do it.

At a PTA meeting a few weeks later, I again tried to present a motion to discuss the school uniform issue with the members of the association. It was shot down by the principal and the PTA president. I was harassed the entire evening by school security officials. Thankfully, I decided it would be prudent to record that meeting. When school officials again began contacting the Army about my supposedly threatening and disrespectful behavior at the meeting, I published the video on my blog to clear my name. This didn’t sit well with school officials and only emboldened them to step up their claims and use the military to force me to take down the videos — the only piece of evidence I had to prove my innocence.

The principal even used my PTSD to try and bolster her claims that I was a dangerous menace to her and her goals.

Because of these actions, I am pursuing a lawsuit to clear my name and force the school system to admit they overstepped their bounds by denying my right to participate in my children’s education and attempt to ruin my career. Unfortunately, I can’t afford to tackle this sort of lawsuit on my own. Because of this situation, my wife and I felt the need to relocate our kids after being singled out on more than one occasion by teachers and school staff. We took our kids to live with their grandparents until my orders allowed me to relocate in December. That trip cost us over $1,400, plus another $1,500 in maintenance on our elderly van, which completely wiped out our savings.

So, I’m asking if you’ll help me. I need to raise $7,000 just to pay for the retainer and initial filing of the lawsuit.

I am reaching out through various avenues to help raise the money. I’ve enlisted the help of local media, talk shows and blogs to help me raise the money. Fellow milbloggers are reaching into their pockets and tapping their readers as well. My neighbors and local Huntsville citizens are donating to a local fund at a bank where I’m stationed.

In one week, I move to Fort Hood for the next stage of my military service. I need to at least have the retainer and initial fees raised before I leave. Anything you can do is much appreciated no matter how small.

There are a few ways you can help. On my blog, there is a Paypal link that can used to send money instantly through a debit or credit card. All money sent through that link will go into this fund. You can also mail checks or money orders to:

Grisham Legal Fund
c/o Redstone Federal Credit Union
220 Wynn Drive
Huntsville, AL 35893

Please write “Grisham Legal Fund” in the memo line if you use this option.

This has been an especially difficult time for my family as we’ve been separated from our kids for over a month. We look forward to reuniting with them for Christmas. This case is not about me versus the school district. It’s about parental rights and the limits of our educators in dealing with parental concerns, especially when those parents are in the military.

Thank you in advance and God bless you all during this holiday season.

Soldier’s 10-Year Search for Horse Ends

Terri Russell has an inspiring and heart-warming story up over at kolotv.com. I met Norris a few years ago when I was stationed near Walter Reed. I had the pleasure of taking him and his wife, Janis, to visit the Caisson platoon on Fort Myers while he was recovering. It was an awesome experience both for me and them. They are true horse lovers. Enjoy the story. I’ll have photos soon.

The emotional connection between people and their pets is undeniable.

Most of us go to great lengths to ensure our pets are healthy, happy and safe. Some will even travel 2300 miles one way. That’s the story behind one man’s search for a horse he let go ten years ago.

47 Year old Norris Galatas is an Army veteran of 27 years. Injured in Iraq four years ago, he spent most of that time at Walter Reed Hospital undergoing dozens of surgeries. During his stay, he had a lot to think about. More times than not those thoughts turned to his filly Sugar who he was convinced, needed to come back home to Mississippi.

“Take her home and she can be with her momma and her half sister,” says Norris.

It doesn’t get much farther away from Meridian Mississippi than the outskirts of Reno.

But Norris Galatas is on a mission, to find a horse he let go ten years ago. He raised her as a baby and has only ten year old pictures to go by.

“She hasn’t changed much, other than getting bigger and she looks just like her mother,” says Norris

His search for Sugar began in earnest two years ago, when he tracked her down to Northern Nevada. As fortune would have it, his friend P.J. Degross would just happen to live near Reno and help him make contact with the present owner.

“Happy to see him, friends forever, right?” says P.J

“Yep,” says Norris.

Norris traveled 23-hundred miles over the Thanksgiving weekend to pickup Sugar, sleeping on his army cot in the back of the trailer to save on expenses.

“Wyoming up in the mountains it was really cold, it got down to 12 degrees at night,” says Norris.

But all the miles and cold weather would melt away as he gets his first glimpse of the horse he’s waited years to re-connect with.

“That’s a good girl,” Norris says as he talks to Sugar.

“I think so yea,” Norris says when asked if he thinks the horse recognizes him.

“Yes it was worth it, I was about to cry, It’s so good to see her again, but she’s going to have a great life,”

Norris leads Sugar into the trailer he brought from Mississippi. Home is where they are headed.

Norris and Sugar are together once again. With Sugar’s babies, and Norris’s I.E.D injury, they will not doubt have a lot to talk about what’s transpired over the last ten years.

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Airborne NCO awarded Silver Star Medal for heroism

Hundreds of maroon-bereted Soldiers from the 173rd Airborne Brigade Combat Team gathered Nov. 30 to honor Staff Sgt. Matthew Matlock, a noncommissioned officer from Company C, 1st Battalion, 503rd Infantry Regiment, for actions he took under fire to save Soldiers in Afghanistan.

Paratroopers stood at attention at Caserma Ederle’s post theater as Maj. Gen. William B. Garrett III, commander of U.S. Army Africa, fastened the Silver Star to Matlock’s uniform.

During the ceremony, Matlock’s thoughts turned to guys who were with him that day and what they endured, he said. Matlock said he was just doing his job as an NCO, not something he deserved an award for. Soldiers in combat are brothers, like family, he added.

“They were wounded and couldn’t fight back. I was going to make sure they made it out of there,” Matlock said. “They would have done it for me, so I did it for them.”

Still, a day seldom passes when Matlock doesn’t think about June 20, 2008, when his convoy was moving through Zerok, in Afghanistan’s Paktika province.

“It was one of those days,” Matlock said. “We were on our way back to Orgun-E from our last mission. We were getting ready to go home.”

Just a few miles from their destination, the patrol drove into enemy fighters who attacked Matlock’s patrol with small arms and rocket-propelled grenades.

“Everything broke loose. We kept trying to push through. But they targeted our truck with RPG’s and disabled it,” Matlock said. “They just kept hitting us one after the other, until finally the truck caught on fire and I had to get everybody out of there.”

An RPG struck an external fuel tank, sending flames and shrapnel inside – seriously wounding three Soldiers from Matlock’s squad. Under direct fire and wounded himself, Matlock evacuated his injured comrades and treated them with first aid. He fired back and directed his squad to shoot at enemy positions.

But RPGs poured in, sending hot metal fragments through the air. Each time, Matlock used his body to shield fellow Soldiers, receiving shrapnel wounds in the process. That’s where training pays off, allowing instincts to take over, Matlock said.

“You never know, really, what you’re made of until you’re put into that situation,” Matlock said. “You don’t really think about anything else except getting your guys out of there. That was all that was going through my head – these guys are going to make it home. And I made sure of that.”

Eighteen months passed since that day in Afghanistan. Matlock listened from the theater’s front row as Garrett spoke of his actions.

“Staff Sgt. Matlock fought with such incredible bravery, deliberately putting himself at risk time and time again to save the lives of his men,” Garrett said. “He stepped forward without hesitation and did everything we expect of a seasoned combat leader of any rank.”

Matlock, 26, a native of Amarillo, Texas, followed in the footsteps of his father, William Matlock, a retired U.S. Army Special Forces master sergeant. In 2002, he joined the infantry and underwent airborne training before joining 1-503rd, the battalion known as “First Rock,” where he served in the scout platoon sniper section. In March 2003, Matlock served a yearlong tour in Iraq. In 2005, he served a year in Afghanistan. Afterward, Matlock joined Company C, 1-503rd, rising from team leader to squad leader. In 2007, Matlock deployed again to Afghanistan. It was during that second Afghanistan tour when his actions merited the Silver Star, the military’s third highest award, given only for valor and gallantry in combat.

Matlock currently serves as a weapons squad leader with Company C. This month, he returns to Afghanistan with his unit. He’s inspired by young volunteers filling the ranks, “ready to learn and ready to fight,” still knowing they will be sent into harm’s way, he said. During training, he pushes his troops to their limits, to prepare them for combat. He hopes his recognition sets an example and the standard for other Soldiers.

“Everything we’re going to do is real life-and-death situations. I just want them to know it’s real, the bullets are real out there,” Matlock said. “It’s not a game.

Story by: Rick Scavetta (U.S. Army Africa)
Photo by: Barbara Romano VI Specialist 7 JMTC Vicenza – Italy

Drive On

Tonight I am packing up my bags and getting things ready for a two day trip to Ft. Jackson. I will be reunited with my youngest son tomorrow morning and then I will watch him graduate BCT on Friday morning. I am not sure when he is heading out to his AIT destination, but I am sure it will be faster than we wish it would be.

Either I am getting old or this is getting to be to common an experience for me. It sure seemed that he has not been gone long enough to have already completed all of this BCT requirements. I am sure his take on it all is very different. He spent Thanksgiving out in the field probably munching on a gag-worthy MRE. His letters definitely speak of challenges and triumphs.

So, I will not be around much for the next few days. I will try and pop on this Saturday and post a few pics — hey, I’m a very proud Blue Star mom. I can’t help it. Until then folks, I am going to be drinking lots of coffee and driving on over mountains and through cities until I reach the Ft. Have a blessed rest of the week!

Scholarships for Military Spouses

If you have a valid military ID then you can apply for the following scholarships through the National Military Family Association.

From the NMFA site:

The National Military Family Association recognizes the unique challenges today’s military spouses face in pursuing additional training or education. Frequent moves make it difficult to complete programs and establish a career. We are here to help ease the financial obstacles that accompany pursuing a higher education.

The Joanne Holbrook Patton Military Spouse Scholarships are awarded to spouses of all Uniformed Services members:

Active Duty
National Guard and Reserve
Retirees
Survivors

The scholarship funds may be used for tuition, fees, and school room and board for:

GED or ESL
Vocational training
Professional certification
Post-secondary
Graduate school
In-class or on-line
Full-time or part-time

A valid Military ID is the only requirement to apply for our program. Scholarship selection is based on your completion of some survey questions which will help us advocate for education changes on your behalf, short-answer questions, and an essay question which will help us get to know you better.

Apply Now
What You Need to Know
FAQs

Military Brats Registry

In all honesty, I don’t even remember now where I was or what I was hunting for when I came across this registry. I thought I would share it here though so that our military families can pass it on to their own children — or many of you may also be military brats yourself. It sounds like a great way to catch up with lost “military family” members!

Here’s a LINK to the registry and pasted below is a little information on the registry.

From the registry website:

Welcome to the Military Brats Registry


Growing Up Military
Did you grow up in the Military? Do you have trouble answering the question “where are you from?” Then you’ve come to the right place! The Military Brats Registry offers you a way to find your friends and a way for them to find you.

There is no cost to register your information here, and no cost to search for your friends. If you have not registered, do so today…your friends may be waiting for you! DoDDS teachers and family members are welcome also.

The Military Brats Registry was created and is maintained by Marc Curtis .