Monthly Archives: July 2007

It’s Never Easy

Transfers in the military can be a pain the behind sometimes. As I wrote earlier, I was supposed to be taking a First Sergeant position at Redstone Arsenal in Huntsville, AL. My wife and I had found a realtor and were actively looking at homes to buy. I would say were just a number of days from starting the paperwork to purchase one.

Then came yesterday. I went to Walter Reed to take some donated books, letters, cards, and other items to the wounded Soldiers. A friend and reader from my other blog came down as well to spread some happiness. She brought some homemade cookies, short bread, and banana bread. She also brought some “Insulting Parrots”, little parrots that say about four or five rude phrases (phrases I can’t repeat or even censor here).

We first went to the Mologne House where Soldier who are recuperating stay. It’s comparable to a hotel in design and function. If it weren’t at Walter Reed, it WOULD be a hotel, I’m sure. In the lobby of the House, there is a table where people can place donated items. I spread out the books and Leslie left some of her baked goods. Almost immediately a few wounded warriors were checking out the bounty on their way in or out. They’re very shy about taking anything, but love to see what people are so gracious to donate. I told Leslie not to leave it all there since we’d be going to a few more places on the hospital grounds.

After Mologne House, we went to Fisher House. We met two families that lived in Fisher House 2 not far from the Mologne House. We sat and met with the wives, Sarah and Susan, of two Soldiers who had been injured in Iraq. For about an hour we just sat and talked with them about whatever came to mind. Both were younger than 25 years old – mere kids themselves. But these two young ladies were in high spirits and thankful to still have their husbands. Before leaving, I made appointments to come back and have a Guitar Hero II bash at the house with all the families.

After leaving Fisher House, I decided to take Leslie and her son to Ward 57 to give out the remainder of the goodies we brought. We arranged to meet with any of the Soldiers willing to see us (none declined). We slowly entered each room and explained who we were and why we were there. For those that don’t know, Ward 57 of Walter Reed is home to the Orthopedics wing. Almost every Soldier in there has lost or may lose at least one limb. Even though some were obviously sedated to deal with the extreme pain they’ve been put in, each made a concerted effort to acknowledge our efforts. We handed out the goodies and our hearts were warmed by the smiles that lightened their faces. They were humble too, afraid of openly accepting anything. Soldiers don’t ask for much. A little food. A place to sleep at night. And money to raise a family. When we’re injured, we just want to be kept alive. Anything beyond that is excessive and unnecessary.

Oddly enough, the point of this post wasn’t to highlight what we did or solicit a pat on the back. Here comes the point…

I was told point blank that my next assignment would be a First Sergeant position in Alabama. We looked at homes in the area. We researched the best schools. I even called the individual I’d be replacing and my new commander. After I left Walter Reed for the day, I got a phone call on the way home. I didn’t get the job after all!! Something got messed up and they thought I had the position, but they were wrong. I needed to pick my next follow on assignment.

“What are my options?” I asked. “Korea, Alaska, and Germany.” Great! My wife has been pretty clear that she doesn’t want to go overseas. I’ve been pretty clear that in the Army, it’s unavoidable at some point. I’ve been lucky that my only overseas assignments have been deployments. Thankfully, the assignment in Korea is also a First Sergeant position so I had them slot me with that one.

I’m not going to get all excited again. I knew better before and went against my better judgment. Experience has taught me never to count on anything until you have it writing. Then, only give it 50% of a chance. When I graduated from AIT, I was on orders to San Antonio as my first duty assignment. Literally as I was outprocessing, I was told that I’d been “diverted” to Fort Irwin, CA – the middle of nowhere. We had an apartment laid on and everything in San Antonio. We had to jump through hoops to plan for the news. I thought I had learned my lesson, but I guess I was wrong.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m not angry, depressed, or demotivated about this.  Just using the forum to express some slight discomfort and frustration – something you get used to in the Army.

Another downside is that I was actually going to use VAMC to get the loan to pay for my home. I was going to blog about the process so that others would understand how the “other side” the site works. Depending on where my family stays while I’m deployed, there may still be a chance. You’ll just have to keep checking back to find out what’s next for us.

Why I Am Staying

The following Blog entry is written by 1SG Troy Steward

A while back I wrote a Blog entry for this site as part of the “Why I Serve” series. Now that I am a little over a month since my 20 year Anniversary in the Army I am going to write this one as a follow up as to why I am staying the Army past the minimum point of retirement eligibility.

I knew before I left for Afghanistan last year that I would be facing the decision of whether I would stay in or retire this year. Before I left and during my entire deployment friends, family, co-workers in my civilian job and fellow soldiers that served with me would all ask me whether or not I would retire when I got back stateside. I knew that making that decision prior to, or during my deployment would have the potential of not being a well thought our decision as I may allow the current events sway which was I would lean on retirement. Rather than flip-flop back and forth like a politician I figured it would be best to just wait and get home for a little while before I made that decision. When people would ask me what it would take for me to decide, I would simply tell them that it all depended on conversations between my wife and I, how my unit treated me after I returned and how I generally felt about the military after a 1 year deployment to war.

The support my wife gives me is unprecedented and I could not ask for any more than she already gives. She loves me being in the military and she loves being a military spouse. She knows I love being a soldier and she wants to support me in whatever I love, even if that were to mean another deployment. My Brigade has been great and has given me exactly what I was looking for as far as a new assignment. I am going into my 5th year as a diamond-holding 1SG and am about to take over a new company while I wait on a E9 slot to open up. I am staying with the Infantry and the drive is not that bad from where I live now to the new armory. As for how I feel about the military, well I love it of course. That does not mean I support every decision that is made or agree with the leadership all the time. I mean I love my wife too, but we don’t always agree. I love being a soldier and I love training and working with soldiers. I think that is one of the biggest reasons I have decided to stay in for now. I have had a huge void in my life since returning stateside and not being with the guys on my team that I spent the last year with. What I knew as my entire life 24/7 was sucked away from me the day I left Active Duty and went back into my normal National Guard drill status. I miss running for the truck, slamming down red bulls at the same time I am slamming forward the bold on a .50 Cal Machine Gun and of course living life on the edge. It is hard enough not being with my team every day, much less just trying to walk away from the Army cold-turkey.

So for now, I am going to still be pulling on the desert boots, ACUs, and Beret or PC and playing soldier for some unforeseen amount of time. I am not sure if this country needs me, my state needs me or if the Army as a whole does, but I know I need my soldiers and they need me.

**NOTE, Troy is a 1SG in the New York Army National Guard and writes several blogs on his website at http://www.bouhammer.com**

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Heroic Courage: Part II of the Butler’s Bums Story

The dictionary definition of courage is “the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., without fear.” Is it? Do courageous people really do those things that define them as heroes “without fear”? I think courage is best defined as “the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain, etc., IN SPITE OF FEAR.” Not many combat veterans will admit it, but fear is an ever-present companion on the battlefield. We wake up in the mornings afraid we’ve laid our head down in comfort for the last time. We go to sleep thankful for the opportunity to do so, but fearful of the day that follows.

If you look up the words “courage” or “hero” in an illustrated encyclopedia, you’ll see a picture of my grandfather, James A. Stuthers, Sr. He only served in the Army Air Corps for about two years, but he accomplished so much. He served as a togglier and ball gunner in the B-24 and B-17 bombers over Germany in 1945. At just 20 years old, he was thrust into a World War with on-the-go training and a will to survive. This is his story as told through his meticulous records and journals left behind after a life almost 82 years long.

Butler's Bums

Top row, left to right – Roy Reynolds, Jim Stuthers, Dick Scully;Middle row, left to right: Roy Reynolds and Dick Scully, Bill Swords, Dick Scully and Bob Butler; Bottom row, left to right: Dick Scully, Martin Kallinen, Bob Butler and Roy Reynolds. Photos taken at Mendelshem, England.

We left off with a mission over Frankfurt, Germany on February 17, 1945. Five days later, the Bums bombed the PFF (basically the Nazi Party) in Ansbach with no problems. Two days later, on February 24th, things wouldn’t be so easy. Bremen, Germany was a tough target. Bremen is the site of many historical conflicts dating from the 8th century when the troops of Charlemagne went in to christianise the tribes settling there. The city was also conquered by Swedish Viking Rurik in 859, Heinrich the Lion in the 12th century, and ending with the US occupation during WWII. Bremen was a key port city that American forces could use to resupply forces in the region. The Germans weren’t going without a fight.

“Heavy intense flak” carpeted the air the Bums were flying through. My grandfather’s plane suffered two holes during the run over the target. The prop wash from the close formation flyers made it a rough ride. Life in a B-17 is one of the most frightening experiences a man can ever face. It’s not like being a Soldier on the ground. If something is shooting at you on the ground, you just shoot back. When flak is exploding in the air above you, below you, beside you, in front of you, and behind you, you have no choice but to clinch your fists and pray that today isn’t your day.

This constant feeling of intense anxiety wears a man out and works on the very core of his being. In other words, you’re afraid. You fear for your life. You wonder if you’ll ever meet that special woman God has set aside for you. You ask yourself if your family knows how much they really mean to you. Through it all you tell yourself that if you live through this one event, you’ll never step foot back on that plane. The fear grips you and causes you to tremble. Your thoughts stammer; sweat seems to evaporate the moment it leaves your pores. It’s a fear you NEVER forget, even after 47 years when the sights and sounds of a B-17 landing at a nearby field during a demonstration invoke that shaking and nervousness. My grandfather was a proud man. He never spoke of this fear, even when confronted with it head on. There’s no need to look in a dictionary or study an encyclopedia to get the true meaning of courage or courageous people. I’m going to tell you what it is.

No matter how scared Tech Sergeant James A. Stuthers was, he forced himself back on that plane for mission after mission. He bullied himself through all the flak the Germans could throw at him. He didn’t run to Canada and he didn’t hide out in the sick bays seeking encouragement and excuses while the rest of the Bums sacrificed themselves at the alter of freedom. He climbed onto the plane, manned his gun, and bombed the town of Bremen into submission. The town was filled with smoke and fire. German fighters swarmed the airspace firing their guns at the planes as they unleashed their aerial hell. One B-17 didn’t make it back from that mission. Somehow, the Bums successfully navigated the 88mm flak, rockets, bullets and prop wash that presented a wall of steel 20,000 feet in the air. And the next day, he would have to do it again.

February 25, 1945 – Munich, Germany. The Bums switched from 500lb bombs to the increasingly popular M17 incendiary bomb. The M17 had better ballistics and a primecord release that could be set to give correct disbursement. This became the most favored and effective incendiary bomb among the Bomber Groups. It was a favorite of the 8th Air Force and the Bums carried six that day along with six 500 lb bombs, instead of the usual 10-12 500 pounders. My grandfather faithfully manned his nose gun scanning the skies for any sign of the Luftwaffe. As they approached their target, the skies lit up with “heavy intense flak”. Again, their aircraft only suffered one hole – a piece of shrapnel that penetrated the plexiglass of the nose gun and found its way high up into my grandpa’s leg. He only complained that there was a two-inch cut in his flak suit. This is probably due to the extremely cold nature of B-17 flight. That gash created a draft!

In Part III, I’ll close up his journal and relate my recent experiences and memories of my grandfather. I hope to also have an interview with the only surviving member of the Butler’s Bums, Richard Scully. He was a good friend to my grandfather and became like a brother. It’s a bond that death cannot break.

Losing A Loved One – Part I

In the military, especially nowadays, we are forced to learn how to deal with death. It’s not uncommon for a Soldier to know someone who was killed in battle or at least have a close friend who knew someone killed in battle. War is an ugly thing, but we find ways to cope. Somehow it gets easy and death almost becomes acceptable and expected. It numbs us.

What it doesn’t teach us to deal with is the death of a loved one. For the first time in memory, I lost someone that I really cared about who meant a lot to me – my Grandfather. He had a huge impact on me growing up and I wasn’t even his biological grandson. My mother married my stepfather when I was about two years old and he raised me. I grew up around his family and they quickly became mine. I wasn’t a step-anything to my new family.

My grandfather was a WWII veteran, one of the estimated 1500 this country is losing every day. He fought in the European campaign with a flight crew affectionately named “Butler’s Bums”. This is their story – and that of the hero I call Grandpa. Everyone else called him Jim (James A. Stuthers, Sr.)

18th Bomber Squadron

Patch of the 18th Bomber Squadron

The Butler’s Bums were named after the pilot of the B-17 aircrew, 1st LT Bob Butler. The Bums were part of the 18th Bomber Squadron, 34th Bomber Group, of the mighty 8th Air Force. My grandfather served from September 13, 1943 to November 2, 1945. He flew 25 missions over Germany with varying degrees of success and danger. The story of the Butler’s Bums has never been told so there is no research available to tell this story. I can only tell it through the perspective of my grandpa’s journal and photos.

He was trained to crew a B-24 Liberator bomber, a four engined American heavy bomber that was produced in greater numbers than any other American combat aircraft during World War II and still holds the record as the most produced US aircraft. More than 18,000 bombers were built during WWII, but only 15 are known to exist today, only half of those air worthy. He was assigned as a Togglier and Armorer Gunner on the ship. The road to Germany was a long one.

On November 9, 1944 at 2030 the crew of Butler’s Bums left Chatham Field on Fort Stewart outside of Savannah, GA where the 34th Bomber Group was based and headed north to Mitchel Field, New York. Six days later they loaded onto their brand new B-24J and headed north to Grenier Field, New Hampshire. On November 18, they left their point of embarkation and traveled to Goose Bay, Labrador in northeastern Canada. The next day they were in Iceland. On the 20th, Tech Sergeant Stuthers gazed at the northern lights of Iceland before departing for what he called the “large iceberg” of Greenland.

Two days later, they’d be in Wales. In Wales, they downloaded their personal equipment and loaded onto a train for a “beautiful ride down the coast” en route to Stone AAF near Stokes, Wales. I’m not sure where Stokes is since I can’t find it on any Wales map. For that matter, I can’t find Stone AAF. Both may have been renamed. What I do know is that he had his first “limey beer” in the town and left by train three days later. At 1500 on November 27, 1944, their train pulled into the station where they had to take a truck about 14 miles to their new base, Mendlesham, commanded by Colonel Creer (other noted high ranking officers included Lt.Col. Le Bailley, Maj. Duke, Maj. Gay, and Maj. Crabtree).

It was at this point that my grandpa noticed the new B-17 Flying Fortresses. Even though they had been trained to crew the B-24, everyone was happy to see that they’d be flying on the B-17. My grandpa noted in his journal that it was “plenty O.K.” by him to switch planes.

For the next two weeks, the crew trained on the new aircraft. My grandpa was trained to be the plane’s togglier and nose, chin turret gunner. The crew was given training and attended classes in weather, theory of bombing, bomb racks, bomb patterns, fuzing, auto-pilot functions, P.O.I. centering of stabilizer with two bombardiers. The training was intense and at times dry and technical, but the crew worked hard knowing that every bit of their knowledge was going to tested over enemy terrain. On January 13, 1945, the Butler’s Bums went operational. The crew consisted of Robert H. Butler-pilot (died 10/26/1987), Delbert “Roy” L. Reynolds-Co-pilot (died 09/1980), Richard “Dick” F. Scully, Dante Schifani (died 06/1983), Martin Kallinen (died 1978), James “Jim” A. Stuthers (died 07/09/2007 – he would have been 82 tomorrow), William “Bill” E. Swords (died 03/28/1999), Joseph “Joe” P. Remy (died 01/06/2004) and Edward “Ed” J. Renowden (died 09/13/2003).

Their first mission was executed the following day, January 14, 1945. Payload: 12x 500 lb bombs. Target: Derben, Germany, near Berlin. It wasn’t a first impression anyone would hope for. During the mission, 2 B-17s were shot ahead of the Bums. The two planes from 7th Squadron lost 2-3 feet off their right wing tips from direct hits. No chutes indicated that both crews were killed. The flak from Cukhaven below was heavy and accurate, but seemed to ease up over the target. Amazingly, the Butler’s Bums sustained no hole or damage during the mission. However, the bomb bay doors froze tightly shut and the crew returned with a full compliment of bombs.

The next mission took place the following day. Payload: 12x 500lb bombs. Target: Augsburg, Germany. It was a long mission with no activity, no damage and only meager flak in the sky. The next few missions were also uneventful: a small town on the Rhein River, Duisberg, Koblenz, Kassel, Dulmen, and Berlin.

On Valentine’s Day, 1945, the crew performed a mission over Chemnitz, Germany. During the flight, the plane blew the No. 4 cylinder and was required to abort. Nuts, bolts and scrap metal fell to the ground as the crew opened up the cowling back at base. Grandpa helped to navigate the crew from known flack over Amsterdam. Three days later the plane was fixed and the crew was briefed to expect heavy flak. The target was Frankfurt. As is typical with most intelligence, the brief ended up being false. No flak whatsoever was observed, the crew dropped their payload of ten 500 lb bombs on Frankfurt and observed the smoke from their actions spew thousands of feet into the air. It was a “good hit”.

Part II will come later. What a lot of people don’t realize is that these flights were extremely uncomfortable. The B-17 flew between 20,000 and 30,000 feet. At that altitude, the temperatures were easily -30s. Crews wore multiple layers to keep warm as the planes were not pressurized. To ensure that everyone was alert, the crews were constantly chatting with each other. Oxygen was practically nonexistent and it was imperative that constant communication was maintained in case someone’s oxygen mask clogged up or became inoperable. When someone began to speak incoherently, it was a safe bet that the oxygen mask had frozen up somewhere and was restricting the flow of oxygen.

Crewmembers were required to wear gloves to prevent frost bite when handling the heavy waste guns. Often times, the crew would be surprised by German fighters and grab the guns without taking the time to put their heavy gloves on. The results were akin to licking a flagpole in the winter on a snowy day. Add to all of that the constant turbulence created by the close formations the squadrons flew in on missions. The ride was bumpy and uncomfortable. There were no seats in the back of the plane for most crewmembers during the flight while they manned their guns. They huddled together on the cold floors to keep warm. Yet, through all of this adversity, the Mighty Eighth never once abandoned a mission. The crews flew on courageously knowing that they may never come home. Many did not.

My grandfather was a good man and kept meticulous records. Without his journal, I’d never know of the bravery and sacrifices he made as a young man. I never would have known about Butler’s Bums. On the way home from his funeral, I stopped at the 8th Air Force museum in Savannah, GA (just off I-95). The 18th Bomber Squadron had one small display case with no mention of their missions or the Bums themselves. If you’re ever in Savannah, however, the exhibits can’t be beat. There’s a cool simulator that puts you in the shoes of a waste gunner as you attempt to shoot down German fighter planes menacing your formation and threatening to shoot you down.

Pentagon Offering $1 Million Prize for Soldier Power

The Pentagon is currently offering a $1 million prize to any team that can provide power for the future soldiers of America. Instead of wearing 20lbs worth of batteries to run all their new electronic systems, the Pentagon is hoping to cut that amount by at least half.

Teams will be required to demonstrate their power packs work in a “wear off” in fall 2008. The three lightest power packs that meet all requirements will win prizes. The Director of Defense Research and Engineering is demanding that all of the power systems be able to attach to a combat vest and provide 20 watts for at least 96 hours and the whole unit; power generator, control electronics, connectors, electrical storage, and fuel, must weigh 4 kilograms or less.

The lightest system will win $1 million dollars. The second and third lightest systems will win $500,000 and $250,000, respectively.

Telling The Story Of War, One Photo At A Time

By TERRI of A SOLDIER’S MIND

Did anyone ever wonder about who was taking all those intense, impelling and sometime touching photos of our troops engaged in battle that are coming out of the warzone? I’m not talking about the ones we see splashed all across our television sets and newspapers. Instead, the photos I’m talking about, are the ones, that those of us who frequent military sites and blogs see on a regular basis. The kind of photos that we rarely see in the media. The photos that show us what our troops are dealing with day in and day out.

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The “Golden” Common-Sense thinking on sending and asking for care packages

This blog entry must be read in order. First read JP’s list and then read one of his reader’s rebuttal lists. My Comments and actual blog entry are at the end.

The following is what my friend JP calls the New and Improved Golden Rules of Care Packages. I haven’t talked to him specifically about this list, but from knowing him the way I do it is half-jokingly and half-serious in its content.

1. Do not send party invitations for weddings or Independence Day or any other festivities while we are deployed. Probably, because we can’t attend. Anybody who sends a party invitation to a deployed soldier is clearly retarded.

2. Do not continue to write a soldier, when the soldier never writes you back. If you really want attention that bad, jump off a building.

3. The meanest thing you can do to a soldier is to send generic, not name brand goods. Hey, I like to save money too, but you should at least have the decency “to not” send care packages. Sending generic brand goods is worse than taking a dump in a cardboard box and shipping it over.

4. No more magazines dated back to 1980. It’s not like anybody is actually going to read them. I know vacuum cleaners with better Care Package sense than you.

5. Don’t ever send school supplies unless we ask. Most soldiers don’t like to criticize care packages, but you could send over a box of deadly scorpions or feces, and that would be the best package you’ve ever sent. Yes, seriously.

6. Do not send a typed written letter about your personal life to a soldier. It doesn’t matter if you’re Elvis Presley back from the dead or the first person to ride a unicorn. Receiving a typed letter about your personal life is the lowest form of support known to a soldier.

7. Don’t shop at the Dollar Store for your soldier. I’m sure it sounds great when you tell your family and friends that you support the troops by sending care packages, but if you’re shopping at the Dollar store, you’re probably worse off than we are. Please, send us the mailing address to the bridge you live under, and we’ll try and help.

8. If it’s not electronic, sometimes (ok, almost always), it’s not worth sending. I’m convinced 99% of what people send us is garbage. I haven’t seen a soldier yet, complain about receiving an iPod in the mail. I’m just saying.

9. Do not send crossword puzzles. Or word finds. It’s a sure way to disappoint a soldier when they open the Care Package. I’ve seen people who were punched in the face repeatedly; look much happier than soldiers who opened care packages with Crossword Puzzles.

10. Don’t tell a soldier that you understand what he or she is going through because your neighbor’s cousin, who has a sister, who has a brother, knows somebody who was deployed. It’s a sure way of having your care package turn into a soccer ball.

The list below is one that one of his regular readers (Karen) on milblogging.com responded with from the Care-package sender point of view. She titled this The Soldier’s rules for care-package requests.

1. Don’t request Playstations. Get back to the real war! Finish the job and come home. The faucet’s leaking and the gutters need cleaned.

2. Don’t request 100mph tape. Every one of us will send 20 rolls. You’ll end up with enough to put Babylon back together again!

3. Don’t request water guns. When you were eleven you had a water gun, and wished for a real gun. Now you have a big rifle and you want a water gun? Make up
your mind!

4. Don’t request Maxim magazine. Most of us sending care packages are women and children! Don’t you have enough stuff making you homesick?

5. Don’t request fans. Stop whining about the heat – if you’ve never been in labor you know nothing aboutdiscomfort! Nothing.

6. Just how many freakin’ tan t-shirts does one army need?

7. Don’t request iPods. Stop using the care package sites to get free electronics. You earn more than some of us. Hire me as your personal shopper.

8. Don’t request Red Bull. Do you know how much it costs to mail you a case of Monster or Red Bull? No-Doze will dissolve easily in your hot bottled water.

9. Don’t request Axe products. You’re 7200 miles away from any woman who cares what you smell like, and you didn’t care that much when you were home!

10. Don’t request Gold Bond. Nobody wants to hear about your foot fungus and jock itch. Deal with it. War is hell.

I got a nice laugh after I first read JP’s list of the Golden Rules, but I was a little concerned that some people would take it the wrong way. I am not sure if the person that responded with her own list was upset or just having fun with him, but the bottom line is that there are truths in both lists. Having just returned from Afghanistan myself and a receiver of probably the most packages on my FOB, I can understand some of what JP listed. Thanks to websites like anysoldier.com, soldiersangels.com and booksforsoldiers.com I got a ton (actually probably a couple of tons) of stuff while I spent a year overseas. I was always honest and grateful to everyone that sent stuff. Even when it was stuff that none of us needed or wanted. The websites are great because a person can usually list what they need or want, but that does not mean you will always get it. Some people can only afford to send certain things or just assume that someone deployed will want something. When a service member gets stuff they usually share it with anyone else in their unit or on their FOB. However, sometime there are only so many packs of peanuts that someone can eat or only so many books of SODUKU that someone can play.

There is no perfectly right answer on what to send, except to communicate. The service member needs to be honest and say what they need or want. The sender needs to not feel like they just need to send anything, but instead spend their time and money on something that will be used and enjoyed and not just tossed in the corner or stolen by a local national. The sender should also try and get to know the person they are sending to, what are they into or those around them into. For example, when sending magazines to a whole bunch of grunts on a small FOB, ‘Financial Times’ is probably not going to be as popular as say ‘Hunting and Fishing News’ or ‘HotRod Magazine’. Understanding what deployed service members are into helps a sender tailor the package to what will be truly appreciated. One personal example I have is that myself and my two roommates were big into the show “24”, and when I say big I mean almost fanatical about it. I wrote about this in my blog, so one of my regular blog readers and package senders tried to send us anything “24” related that she could. She sent 24 Magazines, calendars, games, etc. She got to know us, what we liked and tailored some of her packages to include that stuff whenever she could.

Personally I felt guilty when people would send us so much stuff, because I know it is not cheap and of course shipping it isn’t either. I had so many posts on the newsgroup threads on booksforsoldiers.com that they had to stop the first one and create a second newsgroup thread just for me, because the first was taking too long to load. A big reason was because I tried very hard to go on there and respond to anyone that wrote what they sent me in order to let them know I got it and how much we appreciated it. I also updated our wants/needs list often so people did not waste their money on stuff that was not going to be used. There are many great Americans out there that insist on sending care-packages to deployed strangers as a way to show they are appreciated. They want and will send things as long as they know an address, so I would much rather they spend their money on stuff that would be used and not just thrown on a shelf. This was the reason I personally tried to communicate with the package senders as much as possible.

People from all walks of life send stuff, from single fathers, to grandparents to college kids. There is no one demographic of supporters except to say they are all great Americans. So there is no way a person deployed to war is going to know what a package sender, can and cannot send. In order to cover all bases, many deployed service members just list anything under the sun that they would like and of course the stuff they need. Sometimes the “want” is an ipod, but it is not that they expect someone to buy them one. However, someone may have upgraded and they would like to send their old one that still works versus trying to sell it on eBay. I would stress to anyone that is deployed or going to be deployed to keep that communication open, either by personal emails, blogs, etc. Have a list, keep it updated and keep it reasonable. If you can get to a PX regularly and buy certain things, then don’t ask people to do it for you, and spend their hard-earned money. The list writer is correct in saying that many soldiers make more than the package senders, especially in the tax-free war zones. I was in a small remote FOB living with anywhere from 20-50 other Americans and about 400 Afghan army forces. We had no PX, no Starbucks, no Dairy Queen, as other bigger bases do. This caused me to ask for things on behalf of my team like DVD movies, drink-mix, gold-bond powder, tarp straps, etc. The stuff that people back in the US or even at the big camps can run to the store to get.

It was not unusual for me to get 12-18 boxes a week, and most of those from strangers I had never met. I took a corner of our Tactical Operations Center (TOC) and used some shelves to create what I called the “TOC Store”. It was open for anyone on our FOB or to those passing through to go in a “shop around”. We had magazines, books, oatmeal, shampoo, beef jerky, stationary, games, etc. etc. I was able to do this and provide for so many that had so little because of the gracious hearts and unselfish pocketbooks of so many great Americans. Would I have loved to get a box full of iPods to give out? Heck yeah, who wouldn’t. But I never expected it, and I would have been humbled to see such a thing. I also loved getting stuff we needed to conduct missions, things we needed to “trick” out our trucks and make them more rider-friendly on missions, and of course the things we needed to just make life more comfortable on the FOB.

The one thing that my tour in Afghanistan left me in awe about was the amount of love and caring that so many people in the US show for those deployed. People spent hundreds of dollars just on us, and I am sure they spent more on other people. They never knew us, will probably never meet us and never expected anything for all the time and money they put into trying to show us they support us. If anyone ever asks me to try an express what America is about or what being an American is about, I will always point them back to that example.

**NOTE, Troy is a 1SG in the New York Army National Guard and writes several blogs on his website at http://www.bouhammer.com**

The Outstanding VFW Website Award

VFW AwardYou Served and VA Mortgage Center.com are proud to announce the winners of our “Outstanding VFW Website Award” for 2007. 20 posts from around the nation have been chosen, after over a month of evaluations, as those that we feel represent the best of the best of VFW websites.

Each post will be receiving a $50 donation check from You Served, all of which is funded by the employees of VA Mortgage Center.com. It’s our salute to the VFW and all the great services they provide for the mil/vet community.

Read more about the winners the details of the awards here.

Military Jeeps are Cool

We just finished a Tribute to Military Jeeps here at You Served and wanted to give everyone the heads up on a fun read. There’s always something cool to check out when it comes to the military/vet community. This is just proof.

Enjoy.