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A Voice for the Military Spouse Community

Mrs. Bianca Strzalkowski was named the recipient of the 2011 Military Spouse of the Year award in recognition of her commitment to the military community, including her active duty Marine Corps husband Gunnery Sgt. Ronald Strzalkowski, and her ongoing volunteer work and community contributions. Mrs. Strzalkowski, 31, of Fuquay Varina, N.C., was chosen from hundreds of nominees from around the world. She has been a military wife for 9 years and is currently based at Recruiting Station Raleigh.

Strzalkowski was nominated by her mother and also by a friend, who praise her for doing so much to help military families. She is a mother of three and full-time student, and also frequently volunteers. She is the sole volunteer for Recruiting Station Raleigh’s Family Readiness Program, has organized workshops and initiated programs including a Meals Program for New Moms and training to help spouses understand the recruiting lifestyle. She has created a unit-specific newsletter, spoken at other recruiting stations about the benefits of a strong Family Readiness program and traveled throughout the East Coast as a LINKS mentor. She has also served as a Key Volunteer and Key Volunteer Coordinator to combat deploying units.

Bianca has written a guest blog that we are sharing with our You Served readers here. Congratulations, Bianca!

With great honor, comes great responsibility: On May 5, 2011 I was honored to be named the 2011 Military Spouse of the Year by Military Spouse Magazine. Over the next twelve months I will learn about the concerns of all five branches while educating the civilian community on what the title of “military spouse” stands for. For me, it means strength, sacrifice, and commitment; we stand up in the face of challenge and stand alongside each other when support is needed. It is important for me to learn of your journey through military life so I can best represent YOU.

In addition, I feel it is important for you to learn about me; I am a mother, a student, and a strong advocate for volunteerism. I have found the best way for me to serve my country while raising my family is by being a part of different military service organizations. Moreover, I have been involved with the family readiness program since 2002 which has educated me on the various resources available to get you to where you want to be. Also, I serve as a Representative to the National Military Family Association, a mentor to the Marine Corps’ LINKS program, and I am currently working with Blue Star Families on future projects.

We all have passions, whether it is education, employment or something unique, and with all that exists for us, you can achieve anything you desire. With the current Joining Forces Initiative in place, all eyes are on our military community and there is no better time to pull together and push towards our own goals. I encourage you to write to me about the changes you would like to see and about the questions you may have. Our best asset is our military family; no one quite understands our commitment to our community like us. Over the next year, I will have the opportunity to write a monthly column and blog at www.milspouse.com; I want your input. We can all learn from one another, whether you are new to this life or a seasoned veteran; regardless of if you are the wife or husband of a service member, or a part of the Coast Guard, Air Force, Army, Navy or Marine Corps-we are all playing for the same team. I look forward to getting to know you, I welcome any insight you want to share, and I am thankful to share the title of military spouse with the everyday heroes that silently serve.

Bianca Strzalkowski, 2011msoy@milspouse.com

Coffee Company Expands Coffee Donation Program to Wounded Vets

LINCOLN, CALIF. (May 25, 2011) – Building on its legacy of supporting U.S. troops serving overseas including Afghanistan and Iraq, the Lincoln, Calif.-based Rogers Family Company (www.rogersfamilyco.com) is adding hospitalized military personnel in combat zones to its list of military units receiving free coffee from the gourmet coffee roaster.

In the new initiative, The Rogers Family Company is concentrating on brigade hospitals in Afghanistan and Iraq. The Rogers Family Co. – which produces ‘Responsibly Grown/Fairly Traded’ gourmet coffee and tea sold worldwide – sends coffee to wounded soldiers as well as hospital staff who work in extreme circumstances.

In the past decade, The Rogers Family Company — a family-owned and operated international gourmet coffee roaster — has shipped some 700,000 bags of coffee to troops in Iraq and Afghanistan and on ships at sea, established a program that provides permanent free shipping to troops for online orders, launched a “Letters To Our Troops” contest and contributed to the care packages of Operation Gratitude (www.opgratitude.com) and Adopt A US Soldier (www.adoptaussoldier.org/).

“We are honored to bring a small taste of home to these brave men and women who have taken a bullet, a piece of shrapnel or otherwise been injured or fallen ill while serving their country in harm’s way,” said Rogers Family Company President and Founder Jon B. Rogers, a former U.S. Army officer who served in Europe. “The hospital project in Afghanistan and Iraq underscores our appreciation for the hardships the troops endure every day.”

The new initiatives involve collaborative efforts with additional volunteer, nonprofit organizations including Soldiers Angels – which supports the work of military base chaplains – and Homefront America, Inc. (www.homefrontamerica.org) which sends coffee to troops through a program called Wounded Warriors.

“Homefront America is honored to be part of the Rogers Family coffee program,” said Arthur Hasselbrink, president and co-founder of Homefront America, Inc. “I know our military men and women appreciate the support. The coffee comes in real handy, especially during those late night duty watches.”

In addition, the company has launched a new program with Adopt a US Soldier – which it has supported for several years – called Operation Front Line. This program pools items from various sources and prepares gift baskets for soldiers in Forwarding Operating Bases (FOBs) – the front lines – and more importantly to remote Combat Operating Bases (COBs) where supplies are limited. The baskets will include gourmet coffee and tea.

The Rogers family has also sent postcards and 232,108 bags of coffee for the past two years to troops via Adopt a US Soldier – a not-for-profit organization staffed by a core group of 50 volunteers with approximately 569, 000 supporters from 117 countries.

Working with base chaplains and other community leaders, The Rogers family also sends its own care packages to some of the thousands of troops who have written the company to request additional items such as toothpaste, socks and other sundries.

During a past holiday season, the 32-year-old company organized a “Letters to Our Troops” contest in which heartfelt letters of thanks were enclosed with care packages to troops serving in Afghanistan and Iraq.

The troop-support programs are among the Rogers Family Co.’s social and environmental projects that help people and protect nature in local communities and those thousands of miles away. In cooperation with farmers, partners and customers, the company’s Community Aid program has completed hundreds of social and environmental projects in the coffee-growing regions of Latin America, Africa and Mexico in the last three decades. Projects include building schools, thousands of modern housing units as well as medical facilities and day care centers for workers. The company also protects myriad bird and wildlife species and has preserved thousands of acres of habitat in coffee growing regions.

George Washington’s First War & A Glorious Army (A Double Book Review)

History is so intriguing to me. My favorite historical topic is the Civil War. Understanding the Civil War is the best way to avoid another one. I’m also a huge fan of George Washington, as evidenced when I named him as one of my top generals along with with General Petraeus. But, before Washington became a hero General he was a normal person.

Simon & Schuster sent me a copy of the recently published book “George Washington’s First War: His Early Military Adventures” by David A. Clary. I actually finished it a few weeks ago, but while I was reading this one they sent me “A Glorious Army: Robert E. Lee’s Triumph, 1862-1863.” Lee was also mentioned in my “greatest generals” blog from Friday. Since I have gotten WAY behind in my reviews thanks for a combination of military and family obligations, I decided that I would combine the reviews, so stay with me.

Before George Washington was a general, he was a Colonel in the colonial Army. Clary did a good job making what I think is frankly a boring and stuffy part of our history. In the 1700s, the country was still young and had a major European influence. Many of the nation’s customs and courtesies were dictated by one’s status. Status was dictated largely by land ownership. Being major landowners, Washington’s family set out to turn George into a member of Virginia’s ruling class.

Clary flushes out how Washington’s life was altered and the steps that he took to become the founder of a nation that would take his name as its capital. Washington’s first job was as a surveyor, a dangerous job at the time. In the 1700s, there was a lot of tension between the early Americans and the Indian nation as a whole. In addition, many of the Indian tribes were also at war with each other. Expansion was becoming inevitable and the tribes were beginning to realize the advantage to being on our good side. To Washington, venturing out into this world represented what Clary called a “grand adventure.”

“George Washington’s First War” is about a lot more than just Washington’s battles, trials and tribulations. Clary gives the ready an early indication into what kind of person Washington was. Recently discovered letters showed him to be quite the ladies man. He was shaving by the time her turned 16 and a teenage growth spurt catapulted him to a final height of six foot three.

Clary does a great job telling the story of a man that a lot of people feel to be quite stodgy and untouchable. He tells the story of Washington’s human side, including some of his early failures. Everyone knows the story of George Washington’s successful life as a military general whose success led to the founding of greatest experiment in democracy. Clary tells the story of Washington during a crucial, formative period of his life, and an indispensable back story to the making of a great man.

If you want to learn what made the man, you have to pick up David A. Clary’s book, “GEORGE WASHINGTON’S FIRST WAR: His Early Military Adventures.” A great read for any history buff that won’t bore you to sleep.



I just finished reading Jeffry D. Wert’s book on one of my favorite generals from the Civil War, Robert E. Lee.

In “A GLORIOUS ARMY: ROBERT E. LEE’S TRIUMPH 1862-1863″, acclaimed Civil War historian Jeffry D. Wert masterfully deconstructs thirteen months of unparalleled military triumph, examining every element of Lee’s success while simultaneously dissecting the innate organizational flaws and battlefield tendencies that virtually guaranteed eventual disaster. Laudatory without hero worship, critical without carping, Wert employs narrative history and analysis to reward readers with a completely objective account of not only what happened, but why.

When most people think of Robert E. Lee, they think of the man that commanded the Confederate Army of Northern Virginia in the American Civil War…and lost. Even when all the odds were against him, Lee was adamant in his beliefs and support of the South. To this day, Lee is a hero to much of the south for taking it to the Union and at least making them understand his point of view.

Prior to being selected to lead the Confederate Army Lee’s predecessor, Joseph Johnston, was doing a great job of losing the war. Lee was chosen by President Davis to lead the Army with the northerners literally knocking at the front door of the Confederate capital. Morale was low, troop discipline was non-existent, and defeat seemed inevitable at any moment. Lee turned that around and had a remarkable string of successful offenses that shifted the momentum of the North.

Much of this history is lost in the overarching story of the story of the Civil War that ended up as a loss for the Confederates. Though Lee’s ultimate defeat was based in part of his own miscalculations, Wert concludes that “a singular fact stands foremost: Lee and the Army of Northern Virginia recast the war’s direction. By maneuver and daring, Lee led his army on what must be regarded as the Confederacy’s best route to a victory against formidable odds. No American army, against such odds…compiled such a record as that of the Army of Northern Virginia, and none altered the direction of a conflict more.”

Wert proves why he is fast becoming, if not already, the country’s preeminent subject matter expert on Civil War history, especially from a southern perspective (I also highly recommend his book “Cavalryman of the Lost Cause: A Biography of J.E.B. Stuart”). Wert’s skillful and competent writing virtually creates a mental motion picture as he takes you through the battles leading up to Ghettysburg. Some of these battles are accidental successes while others are tragic miscalculations.

The thing I think that most people will like about “A Glorious Army” is that Wert doesn’t talk about the Lee’s four major victories – the Seven Days, Second Manassas, Fredericksburg, and Chancellorsville – as a monotone textbook history. In his own words, Wert’s intent “is not to offer detailed tactical studies of each battle, for there are excellent works on all of the engagement, but to offer a narrative and analysis of the fighting, with a focus on leadership and on the experiences of men on the firing lines.”

Wert draws his information from first hand accounts written in letters to loved ones, diaries, and military journals. These writings are culled from every level within the military of the time, from the most simple of privates to the official transcripts of Jefferson Davis himself.

The leadership lessons in “A Glorious Army” should be taught in every military classroom, enlisted and officer. Lee was not only a brilliant tactician, he was prepared to take risks to ultimately save the lives of the troops he so dearly loved. Lee understood that success on the battlefield requires discipline and respect in the rear. A fellow blogger noted recently when I complained about the dire appearance of one of my unit’s motor pools that “how the motor pool looks is a direct indicator of unit combat readiness?”

This is exactly what Lee thought when he first surveyed his new Army. There was no discipline. Because the troops chose their leaders, there was a lot of fraternization that affected morale since they were chosen on popularity, not necessarily by their ability to lead. Through “do as I do” leadership, Lee turned a ragtag bunch of independent men into a force to be feared.

Because the book isn’t so centered on tactics and techniques, virtually anyone wanting to study and learn something about why the South was engaged in the Civil War and how it was fought can pick up this book and understand its lessons. In the same light, even tacticians and military leaders will gain valuable insight into what makes a truly great leader. It’s written in a way that grips the reader and pulls him back 1862 to fight alongside Lee and his subordinate Generals. Before you know it, the movie is over and you find yourself turning the last page.

I recommend you pick up both books and read them side by side as I did. It actually worked out great that I was slow to start Clary’s book because Wert’s book deals with perhaps the most important event in American history following the founding of our great nation. A GLORIOUS ARMY definitely stands as Jeffry D. Wert’s finest achievement in a writing career that was already among the most distinguished of all Civil War historians. Simon & Schuster are really hitting on all cylinders lately!


2011 Warrior Games

It is that time of year and I love reminding you all that the Warrior Games start tomorrow!

You can see some great photos of the most amazing athletes ever here on the DOD website.

Some facts:

~Two-hundred and twenty wounded, ill and injured servicemen and women from the Army, Marine Corps, Navy, Air Force, Coast Guard and Special Operations. (Athletes will be drawn proportionally from the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, Coast Guard and Special Forces. Participants were selected by each individual branch of service)

~7 sports: Archery, cycling, basketball, shooting, swimming, track & field, sitting volleyball

~Who competes: Competition for wounded, ill and injured servicemen and women with the following physical disabilities: amputations, spinal cord injuries, post traumatic stress disorder and traumatic brain injury (this category also includes cerebral palsy and stroke) [Note: this is not limited to those wounded in combat...see this story about a cancer sufferer who was blinded and then lost his legs due to the cancer]

~This competition is held in Colorado Springs at 3 different locations. The Air Force Academy, the Olympic Training Center, and at Wasson High School. It is free and open to the public.

If you are in the area, please go out and support our men and women!

CJ, Troy, and Marcus will be working to get some of the competitors and representatives on the Youserved Podcast here after the Games, so stay tuned!

Video Clips for CMTs Next Superstar Episode 105

These clips were provided by the show’s PR unit. I am posting the 101st Welcome Home clip (have a kleenex handy) and the really funny song. hehe Reminder, the show airs on Friday, 6 May, at 9pm central.

CMT 101st Welcome Home from You Served Radio & Blog on Vimeo.

Video provided courtesy of CMT’S NEXT SUPERSTAR.

Wynn Varble (musician) “HUMP YOU AND THE CAMEL YOU RODE IN ON” from You Served Radio & Blog on Vimeo.

Video courtesy of CMT’S NEXT SUPERSTAR

Mark Singleton and Mark Wills on You Served Radio Tonight

Our first guest is Mark Singleton from Rudolph Foods, the world’s largest manufacturer of pork rinds, and right now we’re working with the Wounded Warrior Family Support to get congress to pass a National Pork Rind Appreciation Day. For every vote for pork rind day at VotePorkRinds.com, Rudolph’s is donating 10 cents to the Wounded Warrior Family Support.

Second hour will feature good friend of You Served and country music star Mark Wills. Mark will join us to discuss his appearance at the MilBlog Conference, USA Cares, Osama bin Laden reaching room temperature among other topics. Be sure to check out the video shot by Troy and I of Mark performing at MilBlog Conference 2011 for a special preview of his newest song Crazy Being Home.

Saluting Our Troops in Their Own Way

I think I have written on A Soldier’s Perspective about my love of country music. This past weekend was totes cool for me because I love, love, love Mark Wills, so meeting him in person was pure awesome. Country can run the gamut from tales of love gone wrong, love gone right, a favorite coon dog, and the best part…love of our country and soldiers. There are many songs I can think of off the top of my head-Riding with Private Malone, 8th of November, American Soldier, Have You Forgotten, If You’re Reading This, Courtesy of the Red, White, and Blue (The Angry American) (which is entirely appropriate for today considering the news of what happened to bin Laden….) and Mark’s two songs, Looking for America and the one he debuted Friday night, Crazy Being Home (I’ll trust one of the Youserved Staff to embed the video if they want when it’s available).

Anyway, I got a press release from CMT and I was pretty excited to see that they are doing something special for this Friday night’s show.

Country stars Craig Morgan and Brett James guest judge as the remaining six contestants visit Fort Campbell to greet the troops from the 101st Airborne division returning from deployment in Afghanistan. The contestants are paired up with professional songwriters to write a patriotic song based off their experience. The contestants perform their new songs for the soldiers and their families. The troops vote for their favorite, and one singer is sent home.

This is a great way to welcome home the 101st, entertain them, and make these young artists think about what this country and these fighting men have provided them. I’m very happy to help spread the word about the show and maybe you could check it out on Friday, May 6, at 9pm Central. Having Craig Morgan as a guest judge made me laugh a little because his song International Harvester ALWAYS reminds me of a Marine buddy. This guy and I went to a casino where he won me a buttload of money at the craps table and as we were driving up there, this song came on the radio and he said, “This is the state song of Wisconsin.” Too true. My buddy just came back from Afghanistan about 3 weeks ago, so it’s all sort of timely and serendipitous. Anyway, check it out and thanks to CMT for taking the time to travel to Ft Campbell to entertain the troops!

Conspiracy Theories Flourish After Death of bin Laden

Conspiracy theories have been an expected phenomenon any time something major happens in the news, especially when an event involves the death of someone famous. Today has been no exception after the last night’s announcement from President Obama that Osama bin Laden had been killed in Pakistan. I’ll take a look at several theories that are floating across the Internet and tell you why they are complete crap.

Osama’s body was buried at sea so we don’t have any way to verify he is dead.
This is one of the theories I’m seeing posted pretty frequently. I’m certain the operators responsible for killing bin Laden were equipped with helmet cams. There most certainly was an autopsy performed and one can assume pictures would be taken of the findings. Just because the video and/or pictures have not been released does not mean they do not exist. There was a familial DNA test conducted that returned a result of 99.9% certainty that the dead body was, in fact, Osama bin Laden. What? That could be faked as well? Yes, it is possible, but there would be more people involved in faking this than can be guaranteed to remain quiet. All it would take for someone to spill their guts is a multimillion dollar book deal and Sunday night movie.

How did Pakistan not know he was there? Isn’t there an army presence in Abbottabad?
This question could be used to show not only Pakistan’s inability to see under their own nose, but to draw vague illusions that Pakistan knew full well he was there and were giving him support to keep him in hiding. I don’t think Pakistan knew he was in their country for certain nor would they give support to him if they did. Pakistan has a large and decently trained military and access to nuclear weapons, but they wouldn’t dare challenge the United States by knowingly hiding bin Laden in their country. India, who is a neighbor of Pakistan also has access to nuclear weapons and would not allow their own booming economy to be damaged by Pakistan’s bad decision to wage war with the US. Additionally, bin Laden’s al-Qaeda has targeted Pakistani targets which gives Pakistan absolutely zero reason to keep him around. He is a danger to stability, infrastructure, and people.

Abbattabad does have a large military presence, but sometimes the best place to hide is in plain sight. The compound bin Laden was found in had enough physical security to keep curious eyes out and to deflect attention from the day to day operations going on inside. Osama had those he could depend upon to remain quiet (until captured and interrogated) that could come and go from the compound at will carrying supplies to the exiled leader. Had bin Laden needed to leave the safety of his compound he could most likely do so under the cover of darkness and not draw any attention at all.

It’s an election ploy by Obama!
This theory is almost as old as 9/11 itself. Every election season, whether it be for president or Congress we see this brought out by at least one nut from each side of the aisle. The theory states that the dead body of bin Laden was frozen years ago after a bomb/the CIA/SEALs/Force Recon Marines/Delta killed bin Laden. Which party currently in charge would then thaw the body as an October Surprise in hopes of securing reelection. This is absolutely preposterous and quite frankly offensive. Our elected officials do some very wrong and unethical things, but freezing bin Laden’s body and then thawing just in time for the election would be about the most idiotic thing ever done by a politician.

There are also whispers that this is just the start of Obama’s media blitz for the election of 2012 and bin Laden’s death will be part of Obama’s political base to get him reelected. Also preposterous for the simple fact the election is almost 18 months away. Americans have a notoriously short attention span in the political ring. Something a politician said last week can be easily counterbalanced in our 24 hour news cycle. The front runner can quickly be left in the dust just as the underdog is now guaranteed the win with one new story. If this was a calculated decision in order to secure reelection he would have waited at least another year before bringing out the body.

With so much bad going on in the world we really need that good news, even if it’s fake!
Confirming the death of the number one man on the FBI’s Most Wanted list just to turn our frowns upside down would be the biggest political risk in the history of our country. I’m sure it would backfire so bad that many would call for impeachment and thus adding to the stress of Middle East unrest, high gas prices, a budget that threatens to send our children and grandchildren into debt, the list goes on and on! I agree some good news is needed to remind us that the world is not all gloom and doom, but the death of bin Laden was not engineered to do that. To do so would be political suicide and piss off enough Americans to demand more than just investigations.

Conspiracy theories in the American landscape will never go away, but I highly encourage everyone to take a step back, breath, and remember that not everyone is out to get you. Now, I need to remove my tin foil hat.

Welcome to MilBlog Conference 2011

Well, the weekend that we’ve all been waiting for is here! Troy and I are rockin’ and rollin’ with the live stream which will be going live in about 5 minutes. Be sure to join us on the stream and in chat if you’re not able to be in DC with us. I will be taking select questions for all question and answer sessions so don’t be shy!

May 6th – Military Spouse Appreciation Day 2011

“Military Spouse Day was first celebrated in 1984 when then-President Ronald Reagan proclaimed the observance to honor the contributions of military spouses. The military now sets aside the Friday before Mother’s Day each year to pay tribute to the spouses who play a vital role in the nation’s defense.”Source LINK Army Military Spouse Page

This year’s Military Spouse Appreciation Day will be observed on May 6th, the Friday before Mother’s Day. I thought now would be a good time to post a little something for those of you who who want to honor that special spouse in your life… whether she/he is your spouse or a spouse you know by friendship or family. Please take a moment and find a special way to communicate your appreciation. I know we do this regularly and it should happen daily, but considering all that military spouses do I think it’s fitting that they have one special day a year where they are officially recognized. Besides, the Gipper started this, and if he said it was a good thing to do, who are any of us to argue?

Military Avenue has a great article with 101 ways to show appreciation. I am posting the first 15, but I really encourage you to go and read through the whole list. They give a lot of great ideas that show true appreciation and are affordable. Remember that most spouses who are facing deployment need another person to help with physical things… so see what she needs and then just do it! Don’t ask her if you can mow her lawn, show up with your mower and tell her you will weed eat too!

Happy Military Spouse Appreciation Day! In honor of the spouses that work so hard on the home-front I’ve compiled a list of 101 Ways to Thank a Military Spouse!

From Military Avenue
It is about Respect, Love, Admiration, Appreciation, and a simple Thank You.
Enjoy!
  1. A simple “Thank You for Serving, too”
  2. CHOCOLATE
  3. Take the time to *listen* She may not have had an adult conversation for quite some time!
  4. Don’t assume HE is not a military spouse. Thank the military-husbands too.
  5. Pick up something at the store that reminds you of her; a potted-plant, a bouquet of flowers, a bottle of wine, nail-polish & nail files, etc etc
  6. Give her a call! Say ‘Thank You’ and find out how her day is going.
  7. A day at the spa! (Thank you, @shelly_76)
  8. FREE child-care. Watch her children for her. Let her do something on her own.
  9. Invite her out for a local-sight-seeing tour. She might not know the area & enjoy learning.
  10. Equip her.
  11. Take a spouse out for coffee or tea.
  12. Pray for him. Pray for her.
  13. Make a fancy-drink. Pour two glasses. One for you, one for her. Make toasts and  enjoy together.
  14. *Give* him a book from your book-shelf that you enjoyed.
  15. Offer to wash her car (Don’t forget to vacuum)

LINK TO ENTIRE ARTICLE!