Author Archives: Claire

Out with the old… (organizing tips and FREE offer)

I think nearly every January since I have been writing for You Served, I have written on organizing. Why? Because some of us are born with a label maker in our hand and the rest of us are born wondering where in the heck we can put everything. I fall into the latter of the two categories. No matter how hard I try to make organizing a naturally flowing part of my  life, it just doesn’t happen. So, each year I start over. I reflect. I rearrange. Most importantly I keep what works and ditch what doesn’t!

I know that simple, affordable and portable organizing is best for military life. Even though my husband is no longer serving and I don’t have any moves in my foreseeable future, I still like to keep my stuff organized and ready.

I found a couple of resources this New Year, and I just know this will be the year! Well, actually I trust that it will be like all other years… I will find somethings that work wonderfully well and some things that don’t work for my family. Continue reading

(UK) Military Wives Create Fastest Selling Single in Britain in 3-years

This is a very touching song and tribute from British military wives to their husbands. The message is timeless and universal! Enjoy! Happy New Year!

From Breitbart(LINK):

This charity single is sung by the Military Wives Choir, the wives and girlfriends of British servicemen fighting in Afghanistan who were brought together by choirmaster Gareth Malone for the BBC2 series “The Choir.” Having sold 556,000 copies in just over a week, the song has become a phenomenon — the fastest-selling single since 2008, outselling the rest of the Top 20 combined.

“Wherever You Are” is composed from letters between these wives and their men — Britain’s heroes — as they served on the battlefield.

Phishing Scams Target Military Families

I have posted on You Served before about scams targeting military families, but it’s a good post to repeat. Remember to stay aware and don’t get caught off guard!

SOURCE LINK

WASHINGTON (Dec. 23, 2011) — Anyone who gets caught by phishing scams loses money, time and security. Phishing is usually an unsolicited email that prompts an action, such as divulging secure information, downloading potentially dangerous files, or sending money to an unknown source.

A recent aggressive phishing attack is making the rounds in an email to USAA members, which appears be from USAA, a financial services company that serves service members, their families, and veterans. The email subject begins with “Deposit Posted.”

Members are asked to open a Zeus-infected attached file. Once opened, it launches a malicious virus which if launched could provide access to personal information and may require a complete reinstall of the computer operating system. Most USAA members are affiliated with the military.

Other attacks have been directed at U.S. military installations and defense facilities. Official looking emails appear to come from a senior officer or other authority figure not known to the recipient, instructing the recipient to download and install software. This is often portrayed as a critical security measure that must be immediately deployed.

What actually happens is that the software is either a Trojan Horse that will destroy systems and networks, or data mining software that will now be past firewall defenses.

Phishers prey on greed, fear, and especially for military targets, obedience to authority. They have become increasingly sophisticated, and create official looking emails and design sites for gathering data.

Be wary of any unsolicited email that requests secure information or instructs you to download software. It is extremely rare for any financial institution including PayPal and Ebay to ask for such information. Check official websites for information on how to recognize fraudulent emails and sites–including military websites. Always get confirmation from a trusted source before downloading and installing software. If something doesn’t seem quite right, it probably isn’t.

For more information, visit any of these sites:

http://www.antiphishing.org/consumer_recs.html

http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx

http://wombatsecurity.com/antiphishingphil

Merry Christmas to our You Served Spouse and Family Readers!

I know Christmas feels different when your loved one is deployed. My son has been in Iraq for two different Christmases, and his absence is always harder than when he’s stateside (even when can not be together). This year I am thinking of all of our families who are reunited and for those who wait. I am praying for those who are waiting, that their waiting will be over soon and their soldier will return home safe and sound to them!

Merry Christmas!

And the winner of the 1001 Things To Love About Military Life book is…

Congratulations to Stacey J who is the winner of the 1001 Things to Love About Military Life book! Stacey’s name (and coroborating number) was drawn by the random number generator at http://www.random.org/

Stacey said in her comment: “My favorite part is all the wonderful, amazing people I get to meet. I have so many friends, some I have been neighbors with , some I know only through my computer.”

Stacey I totally agree! The military family is tightly knit, but yet always expanding! I know you will enjoy this wonderful book! Please send your mailing address to claire@cmwives.org

Thank you all so much for the wonderful comments! I had so much fun reading them and hearing what you love about military life!

1001 Things to Love about Military Life — Book Review and GIVEAWAY!

Bravo to authors: Tara Crooks, Starlett Henderson, Kathie Hightower and Holly Scherer on the fabulous job they have done putting 1001 Things To Love About Military Life together!

I am so excited about this book and reviewing it, and I am excited to offer our You Served Spouse and Family readers the chance at winning a copy of this marvelous read! So, take a moment to read the review and at the end of the review are instruction on how to enter to win!  Continue reading

Book Review and Giveaway on You Served!

This  week I am doing a book review on the newly released book “1001 Things to Love About Military Life” The new book is written by Tara Crooks, Starlett Henderson, Kathie Hightower, and Holly Scherer.

Come and read the review and we have a copy to giveaway to one luck You Served Spouse and Family reader!

I will post the review and instructions on how to enter the drawing on Wednesday morning! Good luck!

Here’s the write up on Amazon:

Book Description

Publication Date: November 2, 2011

A first-of-its-kind celebration of military life, 1001 THINGS TO LOVE ABOUT MILITARY LIFE chronicles some obvious and not-so-obvious traditions, advantages and experiences military members, veterans and their families share.

Full of heart-warming vignettes, laugh-out-loud lists, stories and quotes from military members and family members, and photos that speak a thousand positive affirmations, this inspirational look at those who dedicate their lives to serving perfectly illustrates why it is a profession and lifestyle to love. Continue reading

A new Christmas Carol for spouses of the deployed!

A sense of humor is not optional for the military life… not if you want the military life AND your sanity too! Love this!

LYRICS:

In the first stage of deployment my true love said to me…
I miss you and you miss me
In the second stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Chocolate’s not a food group (it is when you’re deployed)
In the third stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Buy something pretty (don’t have to ask me twice)
In the forth stage of deployment my true love said to me…
I think we’ve been extended
In the fifth stage of deployment I called up my true love…
I just had your baby!
In the sixth stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Don’t believe the president (…)
In the seventh stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Wine’s not a food group either (my food pyramid disagrees with you)
In the eighth stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Stop spending money! (Just try and stop me)
In the ninth stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Are you renovating? (I always do when you are gone)
In the tenth stage of deployment my true love said to me…
Where are my model airplanes? (packed up in the garage, where hey should be)
In the eleventh stage of deployment my true love said to me…
You should shave your legs now (ha ha ha ha ha)
In the twelfth stage of deployment… if ever that day comes…
Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir? (Yes please)

A Week of Giveaways for Military Wives

I wanted to let our readers know of a week of giveaways going on at Christian Military Wives this week! Day one and two have passed, but today will be another brand new giveaway and a new chance to win a great prize for a military wife! The first two days were different books, but other prizes are going to be announced! Check it out today for their new giveaway!

Good luck and if you win, let us know!

To kick off this season of giving and thanksgiving, Christian Military Wives and Wives in Bloom are giving away one prize every day for the first full week of December!  Visit Wives in Bloom (click) daily for the announcement and for your chance to enter! Entry is by comment only, no need to register at the main site. Enjoy!

My Alma Mater — Course trains social workers on military issues

I am very pleased to see that my Alma Mater  is working on a course that will train social workers at a master’s level to work with the military community, specifically. I am not sure what the studies focused on the unique needs of military families includes, but I plan on contacting them today to find out. Way to go USC-Columbia!

Course trains social workers on military issues

 EXCERPT

COLUMBIA, S.C. — Army Reserve Capt. Chad Lauro wants to use his military experience to help those who bear the mental wounds of war. Kina Wilkening, an Air Force spouse whose pilot-husband was deployed for 273 days last year, calls military families “silent heroes” who need help, too.

Both are graduate students at the University of South Carolina, which is starting a new program to train social workers to assist the military, veterans and their families.

“I see it as my way of giving back,” said Lauro, 35, originally from Mechanicsburg, Pa., who served as a military logistics specialist and has been in two years of full-time course work to enter a new career. Continue reading