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March 2012 Spouse Summit (Arlington, VA)

Are any of you planning on attending? I am a day away from where it’s being held. I really need to find an excuse to be there! It looks like a wonderful event and they are still open for registration. Let me know if you go! I would love interview anyone who does attend!

Join us March 2-3 for the 2012 Spouse Summit in Arlington, VA!

Military.com’s Spouse Summit is a first-of-its kind event aimed at informing and empowering military spouses. The Summit brings together Subject Matter Experts to address the most pressing issues facing military families today. Whether it’s learning how to overcome obstacles that stand in the way of career or education goals, or how the state of the economy could affect military pay and benefits, the 2012 Spouse Summit will cover the substantive issues which are crucial to maintaining the mental, physical and financial health of our military families.

Brought to you by the team responsible for the highly successful MilBlog Conference and SpouseBUZZ LIVE events, the Military Spouse Summit promises to be a must-attend event for military spouses.

Fisher House Foundation’s 2012 Scholarships for Military Children Program – Deadline Approaching!

I want to get the word out about the Fisher House Foundation’s 2012 Scholarships for Military Children (College enrolled or College bound) and the February 24th deadline. If you or someone you know is interested in applying for this scholarship now is the time!

Military Kids Can Apply for Scholarships

By Elaine Sanchez
Feb. 2, 2012
SOURCE LINK

The deadline is swiftly approaching for the Fisher House Foundation’s 2012 Scholarships for Military Children Program, conducted at military commissaries worldwide.

Applications must be completed and delivered – not postmarked, but delivered – to a commissary by close of business Feb. 24, according to an agency release. People can pick up applications at their local commissary or download it from the scholarship program’s website.

A minimum of one $1,500 scholarship will be awarded at every commissary location where applications are received. The Defense Commissary Agency operates nearly 250 commissaries on military installations around the world, according to its website.

The program is open to currently enrolled or college-bound children of active duty, reserve or retired military commissary customers. Continue reading

Defense Department Launches Website for Military Children

Defense Department Launches Website for Military Children

(National Center for Telehealth and Technology News Release)
JOINT BASE LEWIS-McCHORD, Wash., Jan. 18, 2012 – The Defense Department launched a new website today for children experiencing the challenges of military deployments.

The highly interactive website, http://www.MilitaryKidsConnect.org, was created by psychologists at DOD’s National Center for Telehealth and Technology here. It helps children of deployed parents cope with the stress, changing responsibilities, and concern for the safety of their parents, officials said.

The center, known as T2, developed the website with informative videos, educational tools, and engaging games and activities for three age groups: 6 to 8, 9 to 12 and 13 to 17. The site features monitored online social network forums for the groups to safely share their experiences with deployments.

MilitaryKidsConnect.org is the first DOD website to connect children in the widely separated active, reserve, and National Guard military communities, officials said.

“Since 2001, an estimated 2 million children have said goodbye to a parent headed to deployments in Iraq, Afghanistan, other places around the globe, and on ships at sea,” explained Kelly Blasko, a T2 psychologist. “Military children are deeply affected by the separation of their parent’s deployment. We’ve seen that in their hearts, kids deploy too.”

The website has features that will help children, parents, and educators navigate the wide range of practical and emotional challenges military families must live with throughout the deployment cycle, Blasko said. Continue reading

Win a Dream Date or a Valentine’s Deployment Cake from Sarge’s List

I love contests.

Even if I don’t win it’s exciting to enter and then to watch the person who does win get all excited!

I am not entering this one for obvious reasons, but if my hubby was still in I would drop my name in the box! Check it out!

Operation Sweetheart – Win a Dream Date or a Deployment Cake!

Posted on January 23, 2012 by Sarge

February is around the corner and yes, love is in the air. SargesList is mission ready and

Operation Sweetheart - Win a Date or a Cake!

willing to help with assistance from their battle buddies-in-amore Wire-A-Cake!

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Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes!

Since we are not in the military any longer we are not directly affected by the changes happening. We are still, however, a military family via being Blue Star parents and we still have many friends who serve. I hear the same thing from many of my friends and family members — changes are coming (and some are here). Whether it’s reintegration changes from a war zone to home or reintegration changes from military to civilian life, it seems that change is afoot. With the declaration of the end of the war in Iraq, some troops staying in Kuwait, and the announced downsizing of the military, families are facing a lot of change.

How do you cope with change? These are not minor changes, but major life changes that can cause us to feel overwhelmed. What are your strategies? Below are a few I found that resonate with me personally. We have been through a lot of transitions ourselves between military and civilian life — it happened fast and insanely for us, but below are some of the attitudes we had that helped us through. Continue reading

Send a Valentine’s Day message to your deployed sweetheart!

I used to send the Stars and Stripes Christmas messages when my son was in Iraq. It was a fun way to send a little extra love and some recognition while he was deployed and working lots of hours. Stars and Stripes is offering a Valentine’s Day message option too! Stop by today and send a message to your special deployed military member!

We are thrilled to offer you the opportunity to send your sweetheart stationed overseas a Valentine’s Day message and have it printed in the pages of Stars and Stripes.

Your message will appear online for loved ones to enjoy all over the world, and will also be published in the European, Pacific and Mideast editions of Stars and Stripes on February 14.

Wherever your sweetheart is stationed or deployed, don’t miss the opportunity to share your love… Upload your message today!

 

Read me a story!

I know my heart melts when my daughter wants me to read her a story. When she was younger it was an every night event. When DBS was in still in the Army we even would sometimes be able to time it where he could call home in the evenings just in time for her bedtime story.

I found a great entry on SpouseBuzz about different apps that are available for a variety of of platforms. If you have an iPad, iPhone, Adroid, or computer (Mac or PC) you may be able to find an app that allows you to pre-record you reading a story to your child. Imagine how awesome it would be for your child to get to see and hear mom or dad’s voice reading a bedtime story even though he/she is deployed!

Reading is linked to literacy. If you read to your child then the love for reading will be passed on. What a precious way to bond, connect and pass on this vital love for learning!

Here’s an excerpt from the SpouseBzz post. Click on the link at the end of the excerpt to find out what application she is talking about — Continue reading

OpSec and PerSec — we should never let our guard down

Many of you have read the headline this weekend (and the article is posted below). “NC Jihadists found Guilty!” They were targeting Marine spouses and families.

This is not the first time families were targeted. This won’t be the last. We can never assume that we are not at risk just because we are in the United States or in another Country in garrison. This doesn’t mean we should be paranoid, but we should always be mindful and careful — in our neighborhoods (and yes even on military installations as some are easy to access), our emails, Facebook, twitter, blogs, and even what you say in the grocery line. Stay alert and don’t take your safety for granted because your husband is a member of the US Armed Forces!

I have written several articles here on You Served about the importance of OpSec and possible dangers. Here are a few of them that may be of help. Please share them and never be afraid to say something to a spouse who is not adhering to Operational Security (OpSec) or Personal Security (PerSec):

You have every right and a responsibility to your family and your spouse to keep them safe. Anyone being reckless is not only being reckless with her own family, but with yours as well.

Smart Phones and OpSec Concerns
Homefront OpSec
The Op in OpSec doesn’t stand for Optional!
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Troy Yocum is up to a lot of good, again, for military families!

Many of you remember Troy from the Hike for Heroes, or Drum Hike  that spanned across the US last year to raise money for military members and their families. The Hike continues to this day.

Take a look at what he’s raising money for this time. Donate if you can, and pass the link on to as many people as you can.

Active Heroes is a non-profit charity whose mission is to further spread word that our military heroes are fighting just as hard at home as they are overseas. With great programs like Hike for Heroes, Active Heroes has helped thousands of military families since 2009. Now in 2012 we are conducting Hike for Heroes relays in cities across America, Charity hikes at National parks and encouraging you all to set up a fundraising page and get ACTIVE. Whether you run, walk, hike, race, or ride you can help out. Simply hit the “Start fundraising” button and join your city’s effort or join a special program and start promoting your page on social media and emails to help. “Be a hero, help a hero!”

CLICK HERE TO READ MORE AND CONTRIBUTE

A Day at Floßenbürg Concentration Camp

A few months back I posted from USAG Graffewoehr, Germany.  I was blessed to spend a month in Germany with my son, his wife and my new grand baby. I stayed in the German state of Bavaria, and technically we were just an hour outside of the Czech Republic. I stayed in a small town called Weiden (in der Oberpfalz). I got to visit Amberg, Nuremberg, and Floß.

Since we were just a few miles outside of Floß my son took me to the Floßenbürg Concentration Camp. The Camp has been preserved and the Country of Germany has done a very good job at tastefully and respectfully telling the stories of the victims of Floßenbürg. If you are ever in Germany I recommend going to at least one Concentration Camp site to pay respects to the victims and to those who fought, bled and died liberating it!

Germany has preserved many of the camps to remind the world what can happen… what did happen. No matter what the holocaust deniers in this world try to assert, the proof in the preserved evidence either silences them or proves them to be fools. Below is a link to the pictures I took. You will not see tons of pictures and I did not pose in any of them. It was a very solemn and very sad visit.

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