Monthly Archives: December 2011

Photo of the Day – Joy of Technology

When I was deployed to Kuwait for Christmas in 2002, we had none of the cool technology we had today. At least, it wasn’t very widespread. We were allowed 10 minute phone calls on a tactical phone in which we had to press a button to talk. This meant ensuring that we said “over” when we were done so didn’t step on each other. Christmas dinner consisted of smoked meats and cheeses with crackers that were sent to us. We also had canned eggnog.

This year, I was privileged to have the ability to watch my kids open presents. On Christmas eve, I opened my presents so the kids could see. The next day, I Skyped in to the kids and watched them open presents. I got to watch for about 15 minutes before the video froze and booted me. But still, 15 minutes of enjoying my kids on Christmas was enjoyable. I almost felt like I was with them.

This is a photo I took prior to the connection dropping as I watched the kids open presents.

Operation Iraqi Freedom/New Dawn

I got the following message from Sergeant Major of the Army Raymond F. Chandler III and wanted to share with all my fellow OIF/OND veterans out there:

The magnitude of what this Nation and our Soldiers have accomplished in
Iraq is unprecedented. We have never been more proud of our Army – our
Soldiers, Civilians and our Families. You freed over twenty-five million
people from tyranny and given hope when hope was forsaken. Our Army
provided new opportunity for the people of Iraq. No other Army in the
world could have accomplished what you have done – Only American Soldiers.

Throughout Operation Iraqi Freedom and Operation New Dawn, our Soldiers
embodied physical and mental toughness and courage under fire. Over the
past eight years, the quality of our Soldiers has stood in stark
contrast to the desert sands. Just as the WWII generation defeated
tyranny across the globe, a new generation – galvanized by the attacks
of September 11th – bravely defeated tyranny once again. Even during the
darkest days in Iraq, our Soldiers never wavered in the face of growing
doubt. They continued to risk life and limb for a cause larger than
themselves. For their heroic action, they received nearly 9,000 awards
for valor including two Medals of Honor, 16 Distinguished Services
Crosses, and 408 Silver Stars.

We remember those who have made the ultimate sacrifice, our Wounded
Warriors, our Gold Star Families, and all of our loved ones who have
been touched by the horror of war. Their sacrifices have given meaning
to our values and ideals. For that, we thank them. A grateful Nation
will always remember, respect, and appreciate these heroes as the Next
Greatest Generation.

We are extremely proud of all of our Soldiers, Civilians, and Families.
Our Army has once again proved that it is America’s Force of Decisive
Action. Thank you for a job well done. Army Strong!

//Original Signed//
Raymond F. Chandler III
Sergeant Major of the Army

//Original Signed//
Raymond T. Odierno
General, United States Army Chief of Staff

//Original Signed//
John M. McHugh
Secretary of the Army

Merry Christmas to our You Served Spouse and Family Readers!

I know Christmas feels different when your loved one is deployed. My son has been in Iraq for two different Christmases, and his absence is always harder than when he’s stateside (even when can not be together). This year I am thinking of all of our families who are reunited and for those who wait. I am praying for those who are waiting, that their waiting will be over soon and their soldier will return home safe and sound to them!

Merry Christmas!

WELCOME HOME: IRAQ VETERANS TO BE HONORED AT EDUCATION CENTER AT “THE WALL”


The Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund (VVMF) is pleased to offer a “Welcome Home” to members of the U.S. Armed Forces returning from war in Iraq, and pledges that when completed, The Education Center at The Wall will honor the men and women who have served in all wars and are part of America’s legacy of service. VVMF and its founders emphasize that the planned Education Center will include and honor those who bore the burden of service in Iraq and who are currently fighting in Afghanistan.

“Veterans of the Iraq war are men and women who served with pride and bravery,” says VVMF President and Founder, Jan C. Scruggs. “Much like the heroes who served in Vietnam, they have done their best for their country, for each other and for the people of Iraq. They will be rightly honored at the Education Center.”

As the war has now ended in Iraq, plans are already underway for a fitting tribute. “This process will take considerable time and deliberation. However, the sacrifices made by veterans of the war in Iraq and other wars, like Afghanistan, must be honored now,” Scruggs said.

The Education Center at The Wall is designed to be a place for us all to reflect about who we are as citizens, as a people, as a country. Future generations will connect with those individuals who died for their country, ensuring that military heroes’ sacrifices will always be treasured… and that their names will never be forgotten. As currently planned, visits will begin with a walk through a history of America’s conflicts, from Bunker Hill to Baghdad. The price of freedom will be honored in the Education Center and patriotism will be shown to be timeless.

Scruggs adds that he has met with key Members of Congress, and assures that there is broad support for honoring the more recent veterans. He continues, ”But until then, their sacrifices will be remembered at the Education Center.”

Army Releases Suicide Statistics

There is simply no reason why anyone should take their own life. No problem in this world is so bad that it’s worth your life. I like to call it a “temporary pain.” One suicide is two too many! Please read through this and help your battle buddy. I’ll be including a bunch of links at the end for both those suffering and those worried about their troop.

The Army released suicide data today for the month of November. Among active-duty soldiers, there were seven potential suicides: none have been confirmed as suicide and seven remain under investigation. For October 2011, the Army reported 17 potential suicides among active-duty soldiers. Since the release of that report, four cases have been confirmed as suicide and 13 cases remain under investigation.

During November 2011, among Reserve Component soldiers who were not on active duty, there were eight potential suicides (eight Army National Guard and no Army Reserve): two have been confirmed as suicide and six remain under investigation. For October 2011, the Army reported 12 potential suicides among not-on-active-duty soldiers. Since the release of that report, one case has been added for a total of 13 cases (five Army National Guard and eight Army Reserve). Four cases have been confirmed as suicide and nine cases remain under investigation.

As of Nov. 30, 2011, the Army has identified 260 potential soldier suicides for CY 2011. Of that total, 154 were active duty suicides: 100 have been confirmed as suicide and 54 remain under investigation; 106 were Reserve Component not on active duty suicides (73 Army National Guard and 33 Army Reserve): 84 have been confirmed as suicide and 22 remain under investigation. Compared to previous years, the Army had 305 in CY 2010 (159 active-duty and 146 not-on-active-duty) and 242 in CY 2009 (162 active-duty and 80 not-on-active-duty).

“Suicide continues to be a challenge for our Army Family,” said Sgt. Maj. of the Army Raymond F. Chandler III. “It is a devastating loss when one of our own, whether soldier, civilian or family member, dies by suicide.”Chandler also said that overcoming this challenge will take the Army’s collective efforts, dedication, support and understanding. “To that end, I am calling on all of our leaders, but especially the noncommissioned officers, the backbone of our great Army, to make a difference. We must cultivate a climate that encourages help-seeking behaviors and supports those who ask for help,” said Chandler. “By standing shoulder to shoulder, we can ensure that no one stands alone!”

Soldiers and families in need of crisis assistance can contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.Trained consultants are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year and can be contacted by dialing 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or by visiting their website at http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org.

Army leaders can access current health promotion guidance in newly revised Army Regulation 600-63 (Health Promotion) at: http://www.army.mil/usapa/epubs/pdf/r600_63.pdf and Army Pamphlet 600-24 (Health Promotion, Risk Reduction and Suicide Prevention) at http://www.army.mil/usapa/epubs/pdf/p600_24.pdf.

The Army’s comprehensive list of Suicide Prevention Program information is located at http://www.preventsuicide.army.mil.

Suicide prevention training resources for Army families can be accessed at http://www.armyg1.army.mil/hr/suicide/training_sub.asp?sub_cat=20 (requires Army Knowledge Online access to download materials).

Information about Military OneSource is located at http://www.militaryonesource.com or by dialing the toll-free number 1-800-342-9647 for those residing in the continental United States. Overseas personnel should refer to the Military OneSource website for dialing instructions for their specific location.

Information about the Army’s Comprehensive Soldier Fitness Program is located at http://www.army.mil/csf.

The Defense Center for Excellence for Psychological Health and Traumatic Brain Injury (DCoE) Outreach Center can be contacted at 1-866-966-1020, via electronic mail at Resources@DCoEOutreach.org and at http://www.dcoe.health.mil.

The website for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention is http://www.afsp.org, and the Suicide Prevention Resource Council site is found at http://www.sprc.org/index.asp.

And the winner of the 1001 Things To Love About Military Life book is…

Congratulations to Stacey J who is the winner of the 1001 Things to Love About Military Life book! Stacey’s name (and coroborating number) was drawn by the random number generator at http://www.random.org/

Stacey said in her comment: “My favorite part is all the wonderful, amazing people I get to meet. I have so many friends, some I have been neighbors with , some I know only through my computer.”

Stacey I totally agree! The military family is tightly knit, but yet always expanding! I know you will enjoy this wonderful book! Please send your mailing address to claire@cmwives.org

Thank you all so much for the wonderful comments! I had so much fun reading them and hearing what you love about military life!

WWII Veteran to Turn 100

Mario Launi, a WWII veteran who served in the Pacific, will be turning 100 years old on January 26, 2012. He is currently at the Hollidaysburg Lutheran Home, 915 Hickory Street, Hollidaysburg, PA 16648. His family and caregiver have requested the community and all veterans to come together and shower him with cards. So what I am requesting that every patriotic and freedom-loving American in the area join in thanking him for his sacrifices. This will be a small token by letting him know how much we appreciate his selfless and dedicated service.

Thank You so Very Much.

Photo of the Day – Digital Re-Enlistment

It’s amazing what technology can do for deployed troops.


U.S. Army Staff Sgt. John Thompson, a section cheif from Headquarters and Headquarters Battery, 1st Battalion, 6th Field Artillery Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 1st Infantry Division, Task Force Duke, and a native of Cleveland, Ohio, takes the oath of reenlistment at Forward Operating Base Salerno, Afghanistan, with his wife Jennifer Thompson watching. The couple decided to do the reenlistment over skype because Jennifer had not been able to watch his two previoius reenlistments. (U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Tobey White, TF Duke Public Affairs)

Photo of the Day – Building Bridges With Afghans

In many parts of Afghanistan, you will find men and women that have literally never ventured beyond their villages. Think about it; and Afghan village is about the size of a standard subdivision in the United States. Yet, some of these people have never left their little space of life.

Some reasons this happens is transportation. There is really only one major paved road in Afghanistan – Highway 1 that rings the country. The rest of the roads are very primitive trails similar to what you’d find on an offroad course in the desert. Some wadis (or canals) are very deep and uncrossable, preventing crossing.

Our military has been helping create bridges between communities to raise the quality of life for these remote villages.


Musa Qal’eh citizens move across the new wadi crossing toward the district center, Dec. 9, before the official opening of the newly built bridge to commercial traffic. The Marines of 2nd Battalion, 4th Marines, provided security for the event. Photo by 1st Lt. Timothy Irish.

Photo of the Day – USS George Bush homecoming


Boatswain’s Mate 2nd Class Anthony Gitar receives a kiss from his wife as they were selected to be the First Kiss during a homecoming celebration for the aircraft carrier USS George H.W. Bush. Bush returns to Naval Station Norfolk December 10 following a seven-month deployment to the U.S. 5th and 6th Fleet areas of responsibility.

Photo by Petty Officer 2nd Class Eric Garst.