http://www.vamortgagecenter.com/blog/2009/11/04/whats-love-got-to-do-with-it/ Updated information on Veteran Benefits, featured Military Bloggers, the You Served Podcast and various other news and information relevant to Veterans. Sat, 11 Feb 2012 02:25:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.vamortgagecenter.com/blog/2009/11/04/whats-love-got-to-do-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-298325 Travis Thu, 01 Apr 2010 03:23:52 +0000 http://www.vamortgagecenter.com/blog/?p=3481#comment-298325 It is nice to know that there are still military spouses that value trust in a relationship. Many of my soldiers to include me sometimes have become quite jaded with the concept during this time. I led a team of 5 who were all married into Iraq, and upon our redeployment all of us were either divorced or in the process of a divorce linked to infedelity. I cannot say whether all of their marriages were healthy to begin with. Probably not. But, I will say it has gotten even more common than it used to be. I only wish more spouses were willing to turn to others around them for real support to keep their vows instead of the occasions I have seen where their support sometimes encourages them to break their vows. It is nice to know that there are still military spouses that value trust in a relationship. Many of my soldiers to include me sometimes have become quite jaded with the concept during this time. I led a team of 5 who were all married into Iraq, and upon our redeployment all of us were either divorced or in the process of a divorce linked to infedelity. I cannot say whether all of their marriages were healthy to begin with. Probably not. But, I will say it has gotten even more common than it used to be. I only wish more spouses were willing to turn to others around them for real support to keep their vows instead of the occasions I have seen where their support sometimes encourages them to break their vows.

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